There is no machine, no phenomenon, no event, no process, no story, no creature, no territory that is innately mysterious. There is only us, and our inability to understand said machine. There is only us, and our ignorance.
The gap in our mind, our inability to conceive something or coherently articulate HOW it works, exists in a vacuum. There is a truth behind every mystery, albeit one that is unknown to us. To praise something for being a mystery, is thus to praise our ignorance.
To regard it as something that “defies our understanding” is to regard highly our own stupidity. To draw attention to how it functions “beyond” our understanding, is to draw attention to how little our understanding stretches.
There is no mystery in women.
The idea that they are not understandable, that the mechanics of their mind are exceptions to the process of study, is but another fable retorted by our social matrix to preserve its own dystopia.
Women WANT to seem mystifying. They WANT the privilege of calling themselves the only thing in the world that men “cannot understand.”
They WANT articles that say the world’s leading theoretical physicist regard them as a mystery to circulate around the Internet. They WANT to be “the one that got away,” the exception to the rule. They WANT to be the special little snowflakes that light up the world.
But they are not.
Why are articles like these so popular (in reference to this article about stephen hawking)?
Because they help so much in preserving female agency. Want to know why you have a generation of enfeebled men who pedestalize everything with lipstick around them? Because of articles like these.
At this point, I trust that most people on this blog are regular readers of game, and have thus, satisfactorily belied all the misconceptions of our oblique reality. But still, I am more than positive, that we all have those moments of epiphany, if only less frequently. The veil gets removed, and the color sets into our world. For a thick moment, the pieces come together and we swear at our own confoundedness.
Why is Freud, the most notable psychologist of any era, quoted as saying “And the great mystery is…what do women want?”
Why is this quote so popular?
What ideas does it reinforce?
What subtle pretext remains hidden behind those words? Behind the idea of the world’s most famous psychologist STILL SAYING that women are a mystery.
Because every time you say “I’ll never understand women,” you pedestalize them.
Because that creeping ideology that swathes you in pretty lies can only exist in a world where you worship that ideology.
And still to this day, men pedestalize women more than ever. Nearly every single man that finds my work doesn’t have a clue about women. You may think you know, but if you’re struggling in relationships, you do not understand women.
If you struggle in relationships with women, you do not understand them.
The fact that men get into drama with women, argue with women, fail to please women, and push women away proves that men do not understand women.
When you finally learn to understand women, you will no longer experience the drama. You will no longer have fights and arguments of an illogical nature.
Women will no longer push you away or give you the cold shoulder when you understand them. In fact, understanding women makes it impossible for them to push you away.
Men who complain about women being impossible to understand are the men who overthink everything. These are the men who spend day after day “analyzing” their dating life and coming up with excuses as to why their girl left him.
And this is what men are best at. Men love to ist in bed for hours analyzing “what went wrong” and coming up with reasons for why they’re failing with their girl.
But, the very fact that you do this is proof that you do not understand women. They are not a mystery as stated in the title. In fact, women are very simple and easy to understand.
However, since our society loves to reinforce the idea that women are such a hard beast to tame, men will continue to live their lives thinking that women are these mysterious beings that no man will ever conquer.
What’s interesting about this is that the opposite is how the world really works.
It’s men who are supposed to be the mysterious ones. The women of the world always end up chasing men who they just can’t quite figure out. They always fall for the men who never reveal their cards.
All you gotta do is look around at all the relationships you see where the woman is madly in love with her man. She just can’t help but talk about how great he is, how mysterious he is, how independent he is, and the great things he’s doing with his life.
Whenever I see a happy, healthy relationship, it’s the woman who did the pursuing and the “work” to get that man to fall for her. She is so madly in love with him that she ends up doing all the things that the man is “supposed” to be doing.
It’s like this every damn time, and when you understand women you’ll see it all around you.
The hottest, most beautiful women I know are always talking about how they’re the ones who messaged their boyfriends initially. How they put in the initial work to get her man to want her.
Well duh! I’ve been saying this for years. It’s what all attractive women do. They’re very easy to understand once you understand where they come from.