Our society is such a joke these days. Get this:
Have you seen that new magazine cover stating how being a beta male shows strength?
I won’t even say what publication this comes from because I don’t want to give them ANY publicity.
But, it’s this programming of the mainstream that has caused men to be weak and fragile.
As a result, both men and women are unhappier than ever before (even though we’re healthier and safer than any society before us).
Why is this?
Because of the social narrative that wants men to stop embracing their masculinity and instead turn into these little sensitive snowflakes.
Women will say they want a sensitive man, but the minute the man starts acting sensitive and caring, the woman is off banging her “horrible, in-sensitive” ex again.
Which is why I always say to ignore the teachings of the mainstream and instead just focus on learning what WORKS.
Learn what makes relationships healthy and non-toxic. The rules haven’t changed at all for the last 5,000 years.
So what makes you think some author from a famous publication knows anything about relationships?
He or she is probably a fat feminist who can’t figure out why nobody wants him or her, and thus must create their own fantasy of what’s “attractive.”
Feminism is a joke anyway. There’s nothing “equality” about it, as this wise reader of these emails points out:
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“Feminism has nothing to do with equality. If it did, all those pink pussy hat bitches would be protesting the 160,000+ male rapes that happen every year in prisons. Not a peep.
They would be protesting that if a man and women do the same crime, the man goes to jail for 2x as long. Not a peep.
They would be protesting that a woman can sit on her ass for years watching TV and drinking while the man works multiple jobs day and night, and in a divorce the woman takes 50% or more of HIS stuff that he worked and paid for…ie she STEALS it (going through this right now).”
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Yes, feminism sounds fun and wonderful until the facts come into play.
Facts such as the myth of the supposed pay gap. The pay gap only exists in Hollywood where male actors are making millions more than the women.
But, since men are simply more badass than women in general, it makes sense that they are bigger box office draws.
You can go ahead and cast women as action stars, but the money always tells the truth: male actors bring hundreds of millions more to the studios than women.
And half of these ticket sales are from women, lol. Just goes to show that WOMEN enjoy watching James Bond and Iron Man just as much as the men do.
But for your normal salary 9 to 5 job? Women actually make MORE than men in a lot of careers.
Either way, I’m not here to talk about the pay gap.
I simply want to point out the fact that men are constantly under attack for being… men.
I’m really thankful for the thousands of bright women who read these emails and enjoy my work. They know about the lies of society.
As much as these feminists hate to admit it, half of the women in America disagree with the feminists and their socialist agendas.
They know how toxic the mainstream advice is for society. How it destroys relationships, ruins the youth, and hurts the family unit.
Plus, these feminists have no respect for the male species. They pretend they do, but they don’t.
As a result to our social media obsessed society, you have a bunch of young guys and girls who think it’s cool to sleep around, lead people on, fake a lifestyle, cheat, etc.
Can’t really blame them as it’s not their fault. They’ve been taught that it’s cool to behave this way thanks to these dumb ass magazines and articles.
Let it be known: when you weaken the men of a society, you weaken society as a whole.
Women aren’t attracted to weak, beta males despite all the marches and “empowering” things they post on Instagram.
They naturally, biologically don’t have any respect for “nice guys” and beta males despite what they say.
If you have a society full of weak men, you’ll have a society full of angry women because they can’t find any man to respect and fulfill her needs.
She’ll march more and more due to all the anger she has built up.
She’ll screech and cry about how horrible Trump is, even though at night she has dreams of sleeping with him (amazing how that works, right?)
But, it’s not the “angry white male” that’s the problem. It’s actually the angry feminist you need to watch out for.
So, to all you feminazis out there: I’ll be fighting back until the day I die. I’ll keep exposing you for your lies and helping men find their raw strength and masculinity that we ALL have buried within us.
For all you men and women reading this who agree with me:
Check out episode 37 of my coaching podcast series. It’s all about being non-needy. This is exactly what the feminazis DON’T want you to do.
They WANT you to be needy and dependent. They WANT you to depend on society, on government social programs, on the lies of globalism, etc.
When you’re needy and dependent, you’re easy to control and manipulate. You become a follower instead of a leader. You become a sheep.
This goes against everything that is human nature, which is why this type of belief system constantly fails in relationships.
The girl will feel “confused” and doesn’t know why she lost attraction for you.
Well, it’s because PEOPLE are hard-wired to NOT be attracted to needy behavior. That’s just the simple facts.
Thus why needy and dependent men AND women fail in relationships over and over again.
It’s why your partner ran off to sleep with that asshole ex who goes against EVERYTHING your partner said she wants.
Amazing, right?
That’s why I record these coaching podcasts. They’re designed to teach you the CORRECT belief system that brings you healthy relationships despite what society says.
Join my “Relationship Academy” and listen to this podcast ASAP.
And if you disagree with me?
Then just go away. Why are you even here? You’re the problem. Your relationships fail because you have a failed mentality. No one wants to date you because of how negative your outlook on life is.
Feminism is a joke and it’s negative — not positive in anyway.
The Truth About “Crazy” Relationships
I’ve dated a lot of crazy women over the years.
My website, my coaching podcasts, my courses all came to existence because of how painful some of these relationships were.
None of my content would exist if I didn’t start blogging on the internet as a form of self-therapy.
Who would have thought that I’d have a website getting hundreds, sometimes thousands, of visitors per day?
Now that’s a crazy result.
Helping thousands of men and women with their relationships over the years has helped me realize the truth about “crazy” relationships:
What you may define as crazy could be very different from my definition.
Example:
A lot of people who are codependent think it’s “normal” to be needy.
It’s how you show “love” in your head. You buy gifts, you constantly give compliments, you want to cuddle all the time, you can’t imagine a day without texting, etc.
This feels like “love” to you.
To me?
This feels like an attachment disorder.
Yes, I said DISORDER.
This is because needy behavior is NOT healthy. Your relationships and your life will suffer as a result.
But, a lot of people disagree. They think I’m “crazy” for suggesting such a thing.
Sooner or later, you eventually learn that your needy behaviors are exactly what drove your partner away in the first place.
You believe that only a “crazy” person wouldn’t want all the attention and love that you provide.
It’s a common problem that 95% of people have these days. We live in a society that encourages you to be dependent on others.
Neediness is, without a doubt, the quickest way to turn off your partner. Once you get your neediness and dependent behaviors under control, you’ve only scratches the surface.
Check this out:
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“Hey Rick, I followed your advice with great results. She came back to my arms crying last night saying how I was the man of her life, etc.
What advice do you have now in this phase of the relationship so I can make sure that I cut out the drama and have a meaningful relationship?
As I said before I truly think this girl loves me, but I think she has BPD and I want to stop her push/pull. Or at least reduce to the little possible.”
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You cut out your needy behavior and she came back into your arms.
Amazing how that works, right? She’s not really crazy after all — you were simply killing your attractiveness to her.
People will act “crazy” when they no longer find you desirable.
Anyway, what should you do going forward?
Just stick to the script that I teach.
If what you learned from me got her to come back, why do you think you need to do something else or whatever?
That’s the problem I notice most guys make:
They follow my lessons, get results, and then change it up.
WHY?
Just keep doing what I taught. Don’t change anything. Keep it up FOREVER until the end of time.
She’s not going to do the push/pull as long as you follow what you learned in my coaching podcasts.
The ONLY reason she would go push/pull on you is if you go back to your old habits and bring out the “old” you (the one she lost feelings for).
So, put the “old” you in the garbage. It isn’t attractive. The old you sucks.
This “new” you that you’ve shown her attracts her. Therefore, keep it up.
In any case:
If you want the BEST chance of getting your guy/girl to come back into your arms, then you need to change your behavior.
You must become attractive in their eyes once again.
And once they come back? Never bring back the “old” you. It will just push them away again.
Learn how to attract your partner again with my coaching podcast episodes.
– Rick
Billy says
Hiya I like how you reinforce the idea in previous posts of being a realist and not an idealist and encouraging people like myself to think for themselves. This lead me to make a comment here about what you describe as co dependent disorder. While I agree with you to some extent I would like to ask if you consider texting your girlfriend everyday is needy behaviour?
I myself at first use to follow the rules of don’t message them everyday and I noticed my girlfriends behaviour would change if i didn’t write her. I explained to her that although I may not write her during the day it doesn’t mean i don’t have interest or I’m not thinking about her, it’s just i have things to do. And she said when she doesn’t hear from me she feels that i don’t care. Before I would have gone on texting her infrequently but because I really like her and thinking for myself not caring how society perceives me texting everyday or even asking her about her behaviour change, I made a choice to write her only in the mornings and before she goes to bed, and she also does the same. Is this co dependent behaviour? We have been together 6 months. I do believe that it can be perceived as needy behaviour however I feel it’s also natural to want to write your lady whenever you want without having to justify to yourself wether its needy or not. A bit of a paradox, however just be yourself.
Now on the flipside my girlfriend has been acting distant and testing me which I just ignore. We haven’t had sex in a while too. While I knew and felt something was up i didn’t know what it was. A few days ago i got the dreaded “We need to talk” which i was certain at the time she was going to break up with me.
She was direct with her feelings that she feels that she’s the one carrying the weight of the relationship and says i need to step up and be the man. And she was getting bored of routine.
I listened to her and took on board everything she was feeling even though i didn’t agree with everything. And proposed solutions and ways we can move forward.
My point here is she had respect enough to tell me where I was going wrong and while she didn’t say she lost attraction or desire for me i now know that was the case. Communication is key. And your behaviour dictate what happens in the relationship
Rick says
Remember that actions are all that matter. Words are just hot air. The action of her not sleeping with you is evidence that she isn’t attracted to you anymore. Continuing a relationship with someone who isn’t attracted to you is a slow death. The relationship will soon die and you might as well leave ASAP instead of sticking around hoping it to get better (it won’t). By leaving early on, you actually make yourself more attractive by doing so because she realizes you aren’t needy or desperate for her and willing to walk away which is a sign of confidence and strength.