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14 Reasons Why “Nice Guys” Can’t Get Girlfriends & Dates

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If you feel like you’re genuinely a nice guy or good guy, different from all the other “assholes” out there, then please read this article.

Why is it that when you’re good to your partner, things only tend to get worse? You’re going out of your way for him/her, you’re trying to please and make them happy, you ‘different’ from his or her previous partners, etc.

Yet the relationship only gets worse and leads to failure. Why does this tend to happen so often these days?

In this big article, I’ve written about 14 reasons why the “good” men and women tend to experience more drama in their relationships than all the other people you’re ‘different’ from. Read on!

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Should You Cut Out Family Members From Your Life?

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One of the deeper questions I get from time to time is if it’s okay to cut a family member out of your life.

Here’s my answer:

If the situation warrants it, ABSOLUTELY.

But, coming to this conclusion isn’t as simple as cutting off a boyfriend because he’s just a shitty human-being.

Cutting off a sibling or a parent isn’t a decision that should be taken lightly. Only after careful consideration should you decide to take this step.

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Is My Boyfriend A Sociopath? Do They Feel Love and Emotions?

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If you’re worried that your boyfriend might be a sociopath and is incapable of love and emotions, then you need to read this article.

Many women who are dating sociopaths stumble on my blog. They often wonder why their boyfriend won’t love her the way she loves him.

You might mistakenly assume that your boyfriend has BPD or some other disorder.

But, chances are your boyfriend has a number of issues going on with his mental health. And, since I’m NOT a mental health professional, I’m simply going to write about what I believe are the warning signs of a sociopathic man.

Take what you learn from this and simply apply it to your situation. If everything I write sounds exactly like your boyfriend, then you need to consider the reality that it may be time to leave, and he needs help from a professional.

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A High Quality Woman Won’t Hesitate To Leave Her Boyfriend

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People often ask me what I believe to be the difference between a woman of quality and an average (or below average) one.

The difference is this:

A woman of high quality knows her worth. She won’t wait around for a guy to get his shit together. She’ll be out before you know it, moving forward with her life.

This is truly what separates the great women from the rest. These women are rare of course, but they are out there. They will give you this vibe that says, “You better not waste my time, buddy!”

I wouldn’t have it any other way.

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Give Her Some Space. Let Her Come To You. It’s Healthy

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One of the most important lessons I teach people is this: you need to give her some space. Let her come back to you on her own terms.

It’s a very simple lesson, yet incredibly difficult to follow if you’re in a codependent relationship.

The reasons for this is obvious: as a codependent, you struggle to be alone. You feel like you need your partner to be with you or else life sucks.

Giving her some space feels like the last thing you want to do. Instead, you want to pull her in more because you feel like it will make things better, right?

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Am I Too Intimidating To Date? Common Signs To Look For

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Have you ever asked yourself the question, “Am I too intimidating to date? Do people thing I’m hard to approach? Is my personality too strong for relationships?”

Well, the fact that you’re reading this article probably means that you’ve asked yourself these questions more than once. I know I have.

I’ve been told I have a strong personality. Women have told me over the years that I give off an intimidating vibe. I’m okay with this as I’ll explain below.

So, I’ve grabbed a bunch of common signs to think about to see if you’re actually too intimidating for a relationship.

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How To Stop Giving A Fuck and Be A Mature, Healthy Adult

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Feel like you don’t know how to stop giving a fuck? That you care way too much about the opinion of others? You’re not alone.

In fact, most people are just like you. They have no idea what it means to be a mature, healthy adult.

Instead, you care way too much about the opinions of others. You want everyone to like and appreciate you. It feels like a personal attack when people reject you.

The mental programing of your brain causes you to think and believe this way. The result is that you become dependent on others. You care way too much about the opinion of others.

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