Finding Success in BPD and Codependent Relationships
The keys to a healthy relationship are good mindsets, self-respect, and emotional control.
But, there are a lot of other things that play an important role as well. People have written entire books on these subjects (most of these books suck by the way).
So what role does Rapport play in a relationship?
That’s what I want to quickly talk about in this email, as it does play a role.
One of the big problems men face these days is this idea that they need to be alpha males in order to get into a great relationship.
The reason this is a problem is because most men take this advice the wrong way and become insecure narcissists that dislike women.
Whether they were always deep down douchebags is a question for another day. What I can certainly tell you is that your mind has the power to create your reality.
It’s that time of year again — Valentine’s Day!
If you’ve been reading my writings for a few years, you may recall that I always go on a rant on Valentine’s Day.
However, the “problem” I’m having today is finding something to rant about.
Lately, every single email in my Free Newsletter I’ve written has been me ranting. So, I’m not sure what I can rant about when I’m always ranting in the first place.
And what isn’t there to rant about?
Out of all the problems I help people with in their relationships, being less needy and clingy in relationships takes the top spot.
Neediness is, by far, the biggest turnoff. If you want your partner to push you away and lose feelings for you, be as needy as possible. It will get the job done.
The problem is that most people aren’t aware of their needy behavior. You don’t realize how clingy you have been. As a result, you wake up one day ghosted without a clue.
As someone who has dated someone with BPD, and have several friends with BPD, I want to share some advice about what to do when your borderline ex stops communicating and cuts you off.
It’s a common question I receive from both men and women who are in relationships with people who have BPD.
Now, you don’t need to some communication or relationship “expert” to make these relationships succeed.
In fact, I would say it’s much better to be experienced than to be “smart”. This is true in the real world and it holds true for relationships as well.
One of the more annoying experiences of dating a girl is when she decides to play hard to get.
Or, it at least feels that way.
She’s giving you less attention, she isn’t responding to calls or texts, she doesn’t seem to talk as much as she used to, she isn’t sleeping with you as much, etc.
Why does she behave this way? Does she no longer have feelings for you? Has she met another guy?
I came across an article the other day about how if a man truly loves a woman, he won’t stop pursuing her.
If you’ve read any of my writings before, you’ll know how silly of a statement that is to make. Luckily, this article is on a blog for women so it’s not really designed for men to read.
Those types of websites try to give women good feelings. The author is probably a bitter women who is trying to cope with the pain of being dumped by her ex boyfriend.