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The Truth About Online “Dating” and How To Succeed At It

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I can’t stand online dating. It’s can be an absolute shit show. Especially in today’s crazy world of dating and relationships.

But, I also know how addicting it can be to swipe left and right hoping to match with someone who seems to be your specific type.

As a man who played the online dating game in big cities for years, it can be like a drug that you just can’t free yourself from.

There was a period in my life where I was meeting 3-4 women (or more) every single week from Tinder and other various dating sites.

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Can Breaking Up Get Your Ex Back? Here’s Why You Got Dumped

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The biggest problem I have with 99% of the “ex back” information on the internet is the lack of truth that they feed you.

Specifically, that if you follow some sort of technique or tactic, that your ex will come crawling back to you in love again.

Because it’s such a load of shit, I thought it would be a good idea to share with you how to actually get an ex back — no stupid tactics needed.

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Stop Building Rapport. Break Rapport And Do This Instead

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The keys to a healthy relationship are good mindsets, self-respect, and emotional control.

But, there are a lot of other things that play an important role as well. People have written entire books on these subjects (most of these books suck by the way).

So what role does Rapport play in a relationship?

That’s what I want to quickly talk about in this email, as it does play a role.

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Can You Be Too Alpha? Yes, And You’ll Get Rejected Constantly

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One of the big problems men face these days is this idea that they need to be alpha males in order to get into a great relationship.

The reason this is a problem is because most men take this advice the wrong way and become insecure narcissists that dislike women.

Whether they were always deep down douchebags is a question for another day. What I can certainly tell you is that your mind has the power to create your reality.

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No, Valentine’s Day Isn’t Just For Women

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It’s that time of year again — Valentine’s Day!

If you’ve been reading my writings for a few years, you may recall that I always go on a rant on Valentine’s Day.

However, the “problem” I’m having today is finding something to rant about.

Lately, every single email in my Free Newsletter I’ve written has been me ranting. So, I’m not sure what I can rant about when I’m always ranting in the first place.

And what isn’t there to rant about?

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How To Be Less Needy and Clingy In Relationships

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Out of all the problems I help people with in their relationships, being less needy and clingy in relationships takes the top spot.

Neediness is, by far, the biggest turnoff. If you want your partner to push you away and lose feelings for you, be as needy as possible. It will get the job done.

The problem is that most people aren’t aware of their needy behavior. You don’t realize how clingy you have been. As a result, you wake up one day ghosted without a clue.

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Borderline Ex Stopped Communicating. What Should You Do?

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As someone who has dated someone with BPD, and have several friends with BPD, I want to share some advice about what to do when your borderline ex stops communicating and cuts you off.

It’s a common question I receive from both men and women who are in relationships with people who have BPD.

Now, you don’t need to some communication or relationship “expert” to make these relationships succeed.

In fact, I would say it’s much better to be experienced than to be “smart”. This is true in the real world and it holds true for relationships as well.

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