Reignite The Fire - Relationships, Dating Advice, BPD, Codependency

5 Mindsets That Start Oneitis and Create Dependency

It’s not that I think “love” doesn’t exist or that being attached to your partner is necessarily a BAD thing. I just believe that there’s a fine line between “love” and “dependency.” A large portion of this blog is dedicated to helping guys getting over their ex-girlfriends, getting them back, or trying to fix damaged relationships.

Most of these problems are more or less symptoms of Oneitis. Parasitic love not only corrodes love and attraction, but also the mental well being of unknowing martyrs. I find it especially interesting because unlike the other problems most guys have, Oneitis is NOT exclusive to betas. I’ve seen natural alphas pine after halfass woman and actively take part in their own degradation even while they were CONSCIOUSLY aware of what they were doing.

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Girlfriend Wants A Break: What To Do?

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There are 3 reasons why your girlfriend would want a break:

(A) Her attraction level has dropped below 30%. Women do not break up with their boyfriends when their attraction level has gone below 50%, they will instead choose to torture you and withdraw sex. If you sense your girlfriend’s interest level going this low, then you need to exit your relationship or risk dying a painful death. In this scenario, you have no hope. Attraction is like a rubber band, once it snaps, it’s done. Cut your losses and move on, don’t make the same mistakes in your next relationship.

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You’re Only As Good As The Company You Keep: Watch Your Social Circle

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Beta males are like crabs in a fuckin barrel. If you ever see a social circle of beta males you’ll notice one thing consistently: as soon as any of them decide to deviate from the norm and get pussy instead of upgrading their rank in call of duty, the rest of them riot in a cacophony of incessant screaming. They relentlessly pull him back down to their blindfolded circle jerks and disapprove of any type of self development.

Take a moment and think about all the friends you know who would disapprove of you reading this article right now. They have zero game, zilch, nada, nothing.

For them, women are enigmatic creatures and self-development means leveling up in world of warcraft or a spiritual experience with LSD.

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Why Are BPD Relationships So Hard To Move On From?

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In comes a story from a guy who is finding it very hard to move on after his BPD relationship ended.

This is actually a pretty common story I get from people who stumble onto my blog. There’s something about the way I write and what I believe that causes them to send me 2,000+ word stories.

I don’t mind it. They make for good lessons because you can read my comments about the BPD relationship and my advice for the guy or girl writing in.

It’s a great way to learn my philosophy and mentality when it comes to making BPD relationships less toxic and healthy in some cases.

Anyway, you’ll notice a common theme in this story: the guy believes he is at zero fault here and that his ex is 100% responsible for the failure of the relationship.

It’s complete horeshit of course, but you’ll have to read my comments in bold to learn why. Enjoy!

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Ex BPD Broke Up Out Of The Blue. Help!

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While I enjoy writing original content about BPD relationships and how to find success in them, there’s more than enough of these on my site.

This is why I am now using stories that people send me to help you, the reader, better understand BPD relationships.

Having a BPD ex is normal and expected in this day and age. If you’re dating in this current society, it’s highly likely that you’re going to date someone with BPD.

So, these stories that people send me about their experiences are great to learn from.

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Can Someone With BPD Have a Healthy, Romantic Relationship?

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Here’s a (long) story that a reader wrote in to me about his experience with a BPD relationship.

As with most people who find my website, they are looking for a way to have a romantic, fulfilling relationship with someone who suffers from Borderline Personality Disorder.

If you have read my other articles, you know that I clearly dating someone with BPD is possible. In fact, it can be quite fun as long as you have the correct attitude and belief system that I teach.

Of course that is easier said than done. So, I want you to check out this story that was sent to me and see if you can find all the mistakes that this man made in his relationship.

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The Truth About Online “Dating” and How To Succeed At It

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I can’t stand online dating. It’s can be an absolute shit show. Especially in today’s crazy world of dating and relationships.

But, I also know how addicting it can be to swipe left and right hoping to match with someone who seems to be your specific type.

As a man who played the online dating game in big cities for years, it can be like a drug that you just can’t free yourself from.

There was a period in my life where I was meeting 3-4 women (or more) every single week from Tinder and other various dating sites.

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