Taking the "Crazy" Out of Your Relationships
This is a quick, funny article by Shark. But, read between the lines and you’ll get the big picture that Shark is trying to share.
Shark’s audience was made up of men who struggled to be “alpha males” and couldn’t get a girlfriend. He geared his writings for these types of men.
But, the advice he writes can be applied to everyone. Replace the word “alpha” with “independent adult” and you see what I mean. Replace “beta male” with “weak, uninspiring, not-masculine-at-all male” and there ya go.
Here’s a list of things you should start doing TODAY. As everyone knows, becoming “Alpha” is a lifelong journey. It’s more of a metaphor for becoming the best person you can be. Confidence, passion, ambition, and success are but a few Alpha Male qualities.
I don’t know if there’s any book or article that really captures everything you should do to become Alpha, but here are a few steps that you should initiate NOW.
Afterwards, read the article on Alpha vs Beta Males and highlight things you might be doing wrong that you can change.
A reader writes in:
“First, I would like to say thanks for the Triumph posts. They were so helpful so I am turning to you again for advice. Ok, so the situation is that my gf has become very needy and I have become very missing since I am now focusing on increasing my value for myself. I have lost several pounds, focused on school, and hanging out with my guy friends.
Accordingly, one of her friends left town yesterday and is to be gone for several months so my theory is the reason she has become so needy is because she does not have a lot of friends with whom she keeps into steady contact with. This is because they like to get drunk and be really stupid and my girl wants no part of that.
A reader writes in:
“What do do/say once I approach a girl? Is this something I will just figure out/internalize after I’ve tried many many times? should I pay attention to things like IOI’s and all that pickup stuff, or just focus on having balls and doing/saying I want?”
It would border on insanity to try and make a full-proof script for cold approaching. All of humanity’s knowledge over seduction, game, love, relationships and etc can be summarized into two equations:
For anyone that hasn’t read Robert Kiyosaki’s Rich Dad, Poor Dad; you should pick it up at a bookstore the next time you get a chance.
The recurring theme in the book can be applied to life in general, not just finance.
INVEST; don’t “work.”
Why does everyone complain about life getting harder as they grow older? Because no one INVESTS their time — they just spend it. Life isn’t supposed to get harder as you grow older, it’s supposed to get easier.
Shark would occasionally answer questions from readers as I do. They would write in, he would post their questions, and answer them. It’s a great way to produce content for your readers. It helps everybody.
The following is a long, 3-page question from a guy who is looking for advice about his cheating ex from 6 months ago. He tries to sound “alpha” and that he is “winning” some sort of battle against her (which is the dumbest thing I’ve ever heard), but this is typical of insecure men with issues.
Reader Comments:
“Hey Shark, can you do the follow up to December 20th’s post, this time regarding how deal with a fight in a relationship?”
Just to warn you in advance, this is going to be a long and dense article, but one of the most important articles you will read about relationships. Ever.