Taking the "Crazy" Out of Your Relationships
One of the most common questions I get is this:
Why is it that women (especially young women) choose to date these awful, deadbeat losers instead of successful, hard-working, stable guys?
It all comes down to the way women are with their emotions.
And, in this social media age we live in, the deadbeat loser can really spike a woman’s emotions to obscene levels.
What follows is a long email I received from a woman with BPD who came across my website and went through my Better BPD Relationships course.
If you constantly feel like you’ll never find any true love and relationships, that you’re doomed to misery and depression, read this long story.
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Firstly I would like to commend you for your website. You haven’t made any huge generalizations about those with BP and BPD which are rife all over the Internet and stigmatizes us.
It has taken me years to not be terribly effected by the stereotypes about my condition online — from out right lies and disinformation such as claiming we have no empathy and are sadistic, to telling others never to date us at all.
One of the hardest things for any man or women dating someone with BPD is the “No Contact Rule” or NC for short.
The topic of No Contact is one of the most popular on the internet for a reason.
Why is this?
Well, the simple reason for this is because it does tend to work.
But does it work in the way that you want it to?
One of the most frequent questions I get from readers around these parts is this:
“What the hell does my borderline lover want in my relationship? What can I do differently so that the relationship improves?”
Well, you stumbled onto the right article in the vast world of internets.
You’re going to learnĀ exactly what your lover wants thanks to this amazing testimonial I received the other day.
Check it out:
What follows is a quick interview I had with a borderline woman.
There is an incredible amount of gold to be gained from this interview. Many of the things I’ve been teaching for years are confirmed by her. You’ll see how her boyfriend naturally behaves in the manner that I coach.
I won’t say much more about this because I want you to read it and pick up on these things for yourself.
Enjoy!