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Will My BPD Ex Come Back To Me? Here Are My Suggestions

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Wondering if your BPD ex will come back to you? Trying to get your ex back? Read this article.

So you were in a relationship with a BPD that was absolutely amazing for several months.

It was probably some of the best moments you’ve ever had in life: amazing sex, amazing happiness, your heart feeling full, etc.

And then?

KABLAM!

Your BPD ex leaves you for someone else out of nowhere. Everything was great just the other day. What the hell happened?

You can’t believe how quickly everything went down hill. Your partner was great the other day, and then today? It’s as if he/she became a completely different person.

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How Can I Get My Ex Back?

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I’m NOT a fan of all those ‘get an ex back’ ebooks and lousy advice columns on the internet because they’re just full of junk advice written by people that don’t really have experience with this topic.

Seeing how I’ve gotten back together with multiple exes multiple times over the years, I feel that I owe you an explanation to how I’ve done it and how you can as well.

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7 Common Dating Mistakes and How To Fix Them

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After a long and eventful weekend, I’m back in the ‘office’ and ready to bring you guys and girls some more dating advice – as well as what you can do to start seeing immediate results!

And by office, what I really mean is the local coffee shop. I’m fortunate enough to run a ‘lifestyle’ business that I’ve built over the years and I really think it’s had positive effects on my dating life. I’ll be discussing more of this in the future.

For now, let’s get our mindsets back on point because that’s what really matters, especially when it comes to dating for both men and women.

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Why Are BPD Relationships So Complicated?

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BPD relationships can be very complicated. I know this firsthand as I’ve been in several failed relationships throughout my life (especially my early relationships).

As a result of my intense experiences, I dedicated myself years ago to helping people with their BPD relationships simply for the fact that I like helping people and I don’t want people to experience the pains that I went through.

I hope that you enjoy my help and advice that I write about because I truly do believe that we’re all imperfect humans and I believe that Borderline’s want to find love and happiness as much as anyone else.

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7 Qualities Men Should Look For In Women

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Earlier this month I talked about what women want, the qualities in men that really turn women on for the long-term.

I got some comments and emails from men that wanted to know what they should be looking for in women. And that’s what I’ll be addressing today.

There’s a lot more to women than just looks. In this day and age with all the thirst traps out there on Instagram and Facebook, it can be pretty distracting for us men.

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7 Reasons Why People Cheat In Relationships

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Today I want to discuss the topic of why people cheat in relationships without singling out men or women.

According to this study on cheating, men still cheat more but women are starting to creep up there. Keep in mind, however, that this study is based on people that actually admit to the cheating.

If you want my opinion, I believe women cheat more than men these days because women are becoming the more powerful sex. They’re putting up with less and less bullshit today than before.

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7 Toxic Mistakes That Turn Your Partner Off

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I’ve been getting more and more into my email “Mastermind” group. That’s what I’m calling it, anyway.

It’s where I’m able to unleash my fun and bizarre stories. Not so much ‘shock jock’ material, but a place to give you my advice from what I see and learn almost daily.

If you’re not on it yet, then go here and sign up.

Today’s article is going to dive into some more toxic behaviors that turn your partner off. A lot of what I teach isn’t so much about new techniques or strategies or anything like that…

Instead of giving you more and more stuff that will overwhelm your brain, I instead like to teach people what not to do because less mistakes = happy couple.

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