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Recovering Your Life After a BPD Relationship

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Recovering your life after a BPD relationship can be an extremely difficult time. But I don’t want to focus on the negative here. After all, I like to be jolly and keep things upbeat. Upbeat, I tell ya! So let me bring some positive vibes in this time of healing for you.

I’ve been writing about BPD for several years now. I’ve dated multiple women with BPD and have experienced basically everything that comes with these emotional relationships. And while I did go through a lot of pain, I am more strong and independent than ever before.

And that’s a good thing. A lot of people who get into BPD relationships tend to lack the emotional control needed in relationships. That’s how I was. I let myself get carried away and fall victim to these women who used me, hurt me, cheated on me and so on.

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Are You A Sex Addict? When Sex Becomes Too Important

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It’s been a hectic past couple of weeks for me. With the launch of my new BPD Relationship Blueprint program, I’ve been dedicating a lot of time to answering emails and coaching.

Which brings us to this topic that I’m writing about today: Sex Addiction.

A lot of people put too much emphasis on sex. They make it too important in their lives. And it creates problems.

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Why BPD Can Be Attractive, Sexy, Seductive and Irresistible

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I love me some BPD women. They are usually very attractive and irresistible when they’re in a good mood.

With enough experience, you learn how to give these sexy women what they need which keeps them in a good mood most of the time.

I get my fair share of haters who say that dating a woman with BPD is impossible. But I’ve done it over and over again, and without the common irrationality that other people experience.

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Surviving a Breakup With Your BPD Girlfriend / Boyfriend

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I really don’t like using the word ‘survive’ as it sounds like we’re just trying to keep our heads above water.

I really want you to do more than just survive – I want you to thrive in BPD relationships because I’ve been doing it for years, and teaching men and women what I know.

Leaving a BPD relationship worse off than before you entered is always a clear sign that you stuck around far too long and lost a lot of self-respect and pride. Not good.

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How To Help and Support Someone With BPD

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This next article in my BPD series is about how to help you support your partner that has BPD, or who you suspect is showing symptoms of BPD.

Something to keep in mind in these relationships is that until your partner is actually out of denial and accepting that they want to improve, it does you absolutely no good to tell them that they have BPD and should see a doctor.

This is why correct support is vital. You have to know how to support someone who is in denial. The more you try to force and control situations, the more problems and conflict you’ll actually create.

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How To Improve Your BPD Relationship

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The next article in the BPD series is about how you can improve your BPD relationship, no matter how toxic it may have become.

I’ve been personal coaching both people with BPD and non’s for years now. At the end of the day, improving your relationship always starts with you. You cannot expect your partner to just change.

However, as you change yourself and improve your self-esteem, your partner might be influenced to change as well. But this isn’t something you should focus on because it’s out of your control.

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