Reignite The Fire

Taking the "Crazy" Out of Your Relationships

How To Improve Your BPD Relationship

by 13 Comments

improve bpd relationship

The next article in the BPD series is about how you can improve your BPD relationship, no matter how toxic it may have become.

I’ve been personal coaching both people with BPD and non’s for years now. At the end of the day, improving your relationship always starts with you. You cannot expect your partner to just change.

However, as you change yourself and improve your self-esteem, your partner might be influenced to change as well. But this isn’t something you should focus on because it’s out of your control.

[Read more…]

Why Won’t My Ex Call Me Back?

by 9 Comments

will ex call me back

I remember those days where I’d be sitting around wondering why my ex girlfriend would text me out of the blue, usually right after I moved on from her!

It made no sense. Just out of the blue I hear a *ding* and sure enough, there she is asking me a random question or simply asking me how I’m doing.

What’s funny is that my ex girlfriends would never text or call me back when I was putting in the effort and reaching out to her. WTF?

[Read more…]

How To Get An Ex Back (Even If She Has A Boyfriend)

by 251 Comments

ex back boyfriend

Trying to get an ex back that has a new boyfriend? Is she ignoring you? Ghosted you? Then you’ll want to read this article.

This is a topic that hits right to the heart: trying to get that ex girlfriend back who seems to have a new boyfriend in a matter of weeks.

Or days in some cases.

Actually, I’ve seen women get a new boyfriend before she even broke up with her current one. That’s the real stinger. And, happens quite often actually.

I’ve been the victim of this. Several times in fact. It’s definitely one of the most painful experiences that can mess you up real good if don’t have your emotions under control.

[Read more…]

How To Date A Wild, Crazy, Emotional Girl

by 24 Comments

date crazy girl

Either you want to date a crazy girl, or you’re already in a relationship with a wild, emotional girl that can be amazing at times.

Well, I don’t blame you. In fact, the truth is that the best women you can date are the women who are hard to get. They’re emotional, they’re wild, they appear to be crazy to most men.

And that’s great news for you because it you can learn how to date these crazy women, you’re going to have an amazing life full of love, passion and sexy times.

[Read more…]

Can You Get Back With Your Ex By Being Nice?

by 2 Comments

get ex back by being nice

Do nice behaviors work to get back your ex?

Today’s article comes from a man that asked me a very similar question. He basically wanted to know what nice things he could do that would woo his ex and make her interested again.

He wanted to know what he could do so she could view him as a ‘good’ guy and thus want to the relationship once again.

But is this man thinking the right mindsets? Can you get an ex back by being this nice, good guy all the time? Sure, it can be done. But there’s a much bigger problem to worry about.

[Read more…]

Dating and Relationships Are About Commitment; NOT Interest

by 18 Comments

committed relationships

Got my coffee in hand and I’m excited to be writing this post for you today. I’ve been getting some questions about interest lately and I want to share my opinion on the subject.

Today’s post is going to focus on COMMITMENT and why it’s the most important factor when it comes to dating and relationships. A lot of people focus on interest levels which in my opinion is a mistake.

I’m sure you see or know certain people in your life that just seem to ‘get it’. They have healthy relationships, they never have a problem dating good people, they have the dating life you wish you could have.

Why?

[Read more…]