It’s that time of year again — Valentine’s Day!
If you’ve been reading my writings for a few years, you may recall that I always go on a rant on Valentine’s Day.
However, the “problem” I’m having today is finding something to rant about.
Lately, every single email in my Free Newsletter I’ve written has been me ranting. So, I’m not sure what I can rant about when I’m always ranting in the first place.
And what isn’t there to rant about?
Our society and the world we live in is completely backwards when it comes to relationships and overall mental success.
This is why I’ve been talking a lot about Wisdom and seeking understanding.
Valentine’s Day is simply another example of how easily brainwashed men and women are.
The women believe they “deserve” gifts and flowers from their man for simply existing.
The men fear whatever backlash they may receive if they don’t “show their appreciation” to their woman on this day.
Meanwhile, all the single people out there are made to feel like crap, that they’re not lovable, they lack something, not good enough for a relationship, etc.
From a business standpoint, it’s the most genius holiday ever invented.
More genius than Christmas.
Christmas makes sense because it’s the end of the year and families are getting together.
Society spends a bunch of money before the end of the annual tax season. It puts a bunch of money into the hands of small and large businesses to help them get into the black.
All you’re doing is helping Hallmark make millions from their cards with “jokes” that a 5 year old would be better at.
In fact, that might be a great gift! Have your 5 year old make a card for your woman. If she gets upset, tell her that she’s being illogical, tell her that “Valentine’s Day is about celebrating love.”
Valentine’s Day is the one day of the year where women try to get a pass for being illogical, irrational a**holes.
Except that everyday seems to give a pass to illogical, irrational behavior in this current society.
In fact, it’s the LOGICAL people of the world who are often cast aside and told that you’re bad or “wrong” or whatever.
I have never once “celebrated” Valentine’s Day (if a man can even celebrate it in the first place).
In fact, the women I’ve dated over the years would get ME gifts and cards for Valentine’s Day, lol.
That is the POWER of being a man that women really want to be with and fear losing.
Like pretty much everything I teach, the way I live my life goes against what the world teaches you.
It’s pretty easy these days. If I see some meme or an article by an “expert” about relationships, love, dating, etc., I just try to do the opposite.
That’s how crazy it’s become.
This advice we’re taught from “experts” is so flawed and retarded that you should just assume the opposite is true.
When you’re in a healthy relationship, Valentine’s Day will NEVER feel one-sided.
A healthy woman will celebrate with her man just as much as the man celebrates with the woman.
This is how you know you’re with a woman of quality. She appreciates her man and knows that she doesn’t deserve a holiday just for breathing oxygen.
Therefore, as a man, you must be the type of person that quality women want to be with.
If you’re currently in a relationship?
Then you’ve got to make some changes so that your woman appreciates you more and understands that losing you would be a terrible thing for her.
This is where my Relationship Academy with all my courses and podcast episodes will help.
For half the price of your daily standard drip coffee, you get a ton of lessons and wisdom that will change your relationships and life for the better.
You’ll carry this knowledge and understanding for the rest of your life.
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Avoiding Common Manipulation and Seduction Traps
Here’s what makes a manipulator gain power of you:
Their ability to seduce with their words and actions.
Yeah, that’s nothing earth-shattering. I’m sure you already know this. It’s obvious.
But, it’s still important to talk about.
Most people who end up in toxic relationships got there from being seduced by a craft individual.
Whether it’s a man or a woman, their manipulation got you under their thumb.
When you try to get your way and gain your power back, it blows up in your face.
They have a temper tantrum, insult you, give you the cold shoulder, etc.
Based on how you react to their silly tantrums, they win the fight.
They keep the power.
And, in most cases, they actually gain more power over you. This is what it’s like to date a sociopath. They will say and do whatever to convince you that they’re right and you’re in the wrong.
The manipulator survives through seducing his or her victims with their charm. It doesn’t matter if it’s a man or a woman as both genders can have sociopathic traits.
You aren’t the first victim of these sick individuals, and you most definitely won’t be the last.
Many strong individuals have been reduced to nothing by their manipulations and seductions.
Hence why I teach this stuff.
Avoiding the common manipulation traps is a requirement if you’re going to get into relationships these days.
Since we live in an incredibly emotional world right now, you can expect most people to use some sort of manipulation or “games” to get their way.
The only way to survive and thrive?
Is to not play the game at all.
You need to be the type of person who understands these manipulations and games that come your way.
When you understand what these people are trying to do to you, you’re in a much better position to not fall for their trap.
This wisdom applies to people who just got into a relationship as well as those who have been married for 20+ years.
Manipulation and games will always be around. In fact, it’s only going to get worse in this society.
The men and women who prevail will be those who understand how manipulation, games, seduction, and all sorts of toxic behavior works.
And, this is exactly why I created the “Manipulation Diffusion” course, which you’ll also find inside of my Relationship Academy (everything premium product I create is in there).
I have taken all of the common manipulation traps you’ll run into in a relationship and broken them down so you can easily see how they work.
Then, I talk about what you need to do in order to diffuse the situation and avoid the feeling of powerless.
In fact, when you do it right, you might even gain more power and control because you show how unshakeable and aware you are.
It’s this awareness that truly shows your partner that you can’t be manipulated or controlled. This means you’re strong, which is what your emotionally-chaotic partner truly wants from you.
They’ll just never admit it.
Awareness and understanding is probably THE most important skillset you can have. A man or woman who constantly seeks wisdom will always find success in their lives.
In fact, by increasing your level of knowledge and understanding, you’ll AVOID the common problems that most men and women run into.
For example, women who lack knowledge are often the ones who end up with a toxic narcissist boyfriend. Why? Because they don’t know the red flags to look for — or they ignore them completely.
It’s this lack of knowledge that often causes you to get into terrible situations and toxic relationships.