So I was browsing Reddit (puke) a few weeks ago and came across this thread that I thought was really insightful.
It’s obvious if you’ve been reading my work for awhile, but still insightful and a good reminder of the truth nonetheless.
Here is what the person had to get off his chest:
Don’t Give Attention To People Who Don’t Want You
I’ve finally overcome this crap after months and years of difficulty with women.
She’ll string you along for as long as you let her.
She’ll act like you are the bad person.
She’ll behave like they own you, like you are undeserving of her, and you have to prove your worth to her.
She’ll give you little glimmers of hope here and there.
She’ll give you affection from time to time. Maybe even a kiss.
You’ll think you are finally moving forward a bit.
But in reality, she is trying to keep her grip over you.
She likes to have you wrapped around her finger.
But you must let her go.
Do not give her any more attention.
Do not talk to her anymore.
Do not text her.
Don’t even look at her.
Avoid her, go No Contact, remove her from your life if possible at all costs.
Do not give her the power that she craves.
Do not give her the attention that she wants from you which satisfies her weak, insecure ego.
Move on and find someone who cares about you the same way you care about her.
Find someone who will treat you with respect.
Find someone who will treat you like a human instead of a toy for her pleasure.
Let’s Take a Deeper Dive
Ah yes, a beautiful passage. What’s even more beautiful is seeing this beta male finally see the truth and open the door to becoming a confident, masculine alpha.
There are a lot of women out there who will take advantage of the weak men who don’t understand this. If you have a good head on your shoulders, eventually you’ll realize this truth and you’ll no longer allow women to string you along and use you.
It’s usually the beautiful women with lots of orbiters who will treat you this way. They’ll string you along for as long as they can. She might even give you some kisses and cuddling here and there to give you little glimmers of hope.
She wants you to believe that you’re not in the dreaded friendzone even though you really are. She has absolutely no intention of ever having a romantic relationship with you, but she doesn’t want you to know this.
She knows that you will cut her off once you wise up to her ways. So, she will continue to give you glimmers of hope for as long as possible while she continues to get railed by another dude after hanging out with you.
It’s the women with a lot of trauma that tend to string men a long like this. Deep down she despises men. She can’t stand them. So to have absolute control over you is a power trip to her. It feeds her insecure ego.
On the surface, she acts strong and confident. Deep down, she is soft and insecure. She will reveal this insecurity to you as the weeks go by. She might even do it intentionally to see how you react to it.
Most men will feel sorry for her and become the “captain save a hoe” that she pretend to desire. However, all it does is turn her off even more and guarantee that you will never get intimate with her.
Such is the life of the inexperienced beta male. He simply doesn’t understand. But if he’s smart, he will learn.
This is why the best advice when it comes to dating women is to ONLY spend your time with women who truly appreciate and value you.
Women who WANT to be intimate with you.
If you’re hanging out with a woman for 3 months and she has yet to even sleep with you, or get intimate in any way, she just wants to string you along for as long as you’ll allow it.
When you try to push things forward and become more than friends? She’ll get mad at you and storm out the door, never to call you again.
She’ll make you feel like you’re the bad one, even though she’s been the dishonest one from day one.
Yes, you should remove her from your life. Do not contact her.
If she truly misses you and values you, she will eventually contact you. It might take her awhile to realize what she’s lost. But don’t count on it.
Women like this are drawn to the assholes, the abusers, the narcissists, and the players. This is because these women have trauma and are deeply insecure.
They don’t go for the good men. In fact, they perceive the good men as being weak. It’s backwards, but that is the way they see things.
Let her go.
Find someone who truly appreciates and values you, and wants to be intimate with you.
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