“No matter what I do, I just CAN’T get her to LOVE ME the same…”
If that sounds like you, then you’re not alone out there. Countless relationships exist in our society today that are broken and leaving you in pain.
And one of the big reasons for losing your girlfriend’s love is simply because, if you’re a man, you’re not being the dominant, masculine figure you need to be.
And I don’t blame you. Most men (think 95%) have never learned what it means to be a dominant, attractive force of a man that makes the ladies giggle with glee.
You can thank out atrocious society and the media which loves making men appear weak. Nearly every ad you see on TV shows men being weak and stupid.
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I know how it feels to be unloved.
And I spent many a night in pain after my wife walked out that front door. I can still remember the exact moment and it’s a feeling I never want to feel again (and I know I won’t – I’ve CHANGED for the better and our marriage has been incredible since she came back).
The truth is that anyone WILLING to make changes in their lives CAN receive the love they seek. Your lover wants you to be REAL – and our society has demolished what it means to be a REAL MAN.
I created this website to help men.
But I believe that women can learn a whole lot about us men as well.
It’s only been in the past 50 or so years that us men have been “dumbed down” by society.
Men long to be wild – deep down we want ADVENTURE.
And who doesn’t? What women doesn’t want to be rescued from that knight in shining armor?
The root of our natural being has been completely turned upside down.
Deep down in our hearts, we long for adventure. We long for saving the princess from the clutches of evil.
It’s why men can sit down and watch Terminator 2 over and over again while women would much rather watch The Notebook.
It’s why boys, naturally, enjoy creating weapons out of sticks and other fun objects – whereas girls would much rather dress up like a princess and enjoy tea time with other girls.
Men and women are different – and it’s supposed to be that way.
Yet society tells us differently.
Whether you’re a church goer or obsessed with television and the media, the amount of influence in our lives from the time we were little kids has drastically changed the way we look at life (and nothing against church – I just believe that they’ve been telling people how to live daily lives incorrectly).
And the problem is that most men believe they’re supposed to be good little boys, dutiful and all-around “Nice.”
But men – let me ask you this:
How many of you dreamed as a child of growing up to become a “Nice Guy?”
And ladies – was your dream man this “Super Nice Guy” that bowed to your every command?
But it is the unfortunate reality – and why relationships are very much broken in the world we live in today.
My whole life I spent trying to be that “Amazing Nice Guy” because it was how I thought I was supposed to be.
My parents made me attend church during my entire childhood and teenage years. It wasn’t until I went off to college that I started to grow out of my shell.
I didn’t even have my first girlfriend until I was 20. And I could never figure out WHY women didn’t want me.
I was being Nice! I was respectful and acted the way I was taught to act my entire life.
Notice how I said “acted”.
Because that is a KEY point that I would like to get across to you today (and I very much hope you’ve understood the purpose of this blog entry so far because I worked hard at writing this and my cat is bugging me).
It simply isn’t NATURAL for men to be these “Really Nice Guys” that our society has told us to be.
We literally have to ACT nice because deep down we really don’t want to be nice.
We want adventure. We want to fight. We want to give and receive pleasure.
We DON’T want to suck up. We DON’T want to buy roses all the time. We DON’T want to say “yes dear” and let women tell us what to do all of the time.
Yet this is how society has taught us to think.
And behave day in and day out.
And yet women and men wonder why our relationships are broken and divorce is at an all-time high.
Both men and women simply don’t understand each other. We’ve been raised in today’s society with the INCORRECT teachings of how men and women are to behave.
And it’s caused our relationships to fail immensely. It’s caused children to grow up in broken relationships which create even more problems for them.
And no one should ever want that.
It’s why I created the Reignite The Fire program for men. Yes, it’s mostly about getting back an ex lover. But it’s also deeply about changing the way you perceive yourself and life so that YOU can become the man that you have always DREAMED of being. Since you were a child.
My book can help you become the man that women DESIRE. The man they long about in their sleep.
Will you let me help you?
I hope you will.
From here on out, my future posts will be geared at helping men like YOU discover their TRUE self.
Finding their wild heart once again and becoming the MAN that you were MEANT to be from day one.
Somewhere growing up, we all got lost.
I’m guilty of it.
My wife left me because of it.
And I’m thankful she did because it allowed me to discover my true self.
And once I did, she came back.
– Rick Reynolds