Either you want to date a crazy girl, or you’re already in a relationship with a wild, emotional girl that can be amazing at times.
Well, I don’t blame you. In fact, the truth is that the best women you can date are the women who are hard to get. They’re emotional, they’re wild, they appear to be crazy to most men.
And that’s great news for you because it you can learn how to date these crazy women, you’re going to have an amazing life full of love, passion and sexy times.
First things first: I think everybody can be crazy as all hell at times. I know I’ve had my crazy moments and I’m sure you have as well.
So I just want all my female readers to know that I’m not singling you out here. We’re all a little crazy and I hope after reading through this article, you’ll like my position in all of this.
To me, I don’t really find anything too crazy anymore. I have enough experience that if I’m to call someone crazy, they have to do something insanely out of the ordinary…
But before we dive into the goodies here, I want you to grab my free mini-guide which is all about the #1 mistake guys make in relationships that causes their girl to go crazy and dump you.
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Are Women Actually Crazy and Emotional?
So I think the real question you must ask yourself is if this person is actually crazy, or if you’re just experiencing something that’s unusual to you? Because what may seem crazy to you may make perfect sense to others…
I’ve dated women that I knew I shouldn’t date due to her being in a position where she wasn’t ready. And this brought out all the craziness I knew I should avoid.
Yet there I was going after these women. But sometimes we just really want these relationships to work out. So we keep on trying.
This is just what a lot of us men do. We’re men, we feel strong. We believe that we can control these relationships or that we can help our girl be less crazy. Usually both.
There definitely are some women that tend to be a lot more emotional and high maintenance than others. These are the women that guys label as crazy. But there are men that can be just as crazy as these women.
One of my core relationship mindsets is that you can learn to attract women naturally when you put my relationship system to work. By doing so, you can date any woman — even if she’s wild, crazy, emotional and out of this world.
Relationships takes two to tango. As long as you have the right relationship mindsets and you’re doing the right things, the craziness should rarely bother you. And these relationships can be a lot of fun.
I’ve Dated My Fair Share Of ‘Crazy’ Girls
Over the years, I’ve dated a lot of different women. Introverts, extroverts, calm, emotional and so on. And as it would turn out, they all have their moments where they can be a bit ‘crazy’.
The reality is that most guys simply don’t understand female behavior. Guys are way more sensitive and emotional than they would like to admit and it causes relationship problems.
I’m not saying that guys shouldn’t be sensitive or emotional – this is part of being human, it’s okay. All I’m saying is that it only becomes a problem when you let it turn into judgment. This is what usually happens.
When I first started getting serious with women, they would do things that made absolutely no sense to me at the time. They would say they were going to do one thing and then do the complete opposite, or tell me what they like in a guy, but then go for a guy that doesn’t match anything that she would say at all.
It’s this type of behavior that makes us men decide early on in our lives that ‘women make no sense’ and that ‘women are crazy’. Why would anyone say one thing than do the opposite? That’s crazy!
So it really is perfectly understandable to think this way, and most guys will go their entire lives never learning the truth about women and thus sticking to their beliefs they’ve always had.
Humans Are Driven By Emotions
The lesson I want to share in this article is this: all of us humans are driven 100% by our emotions. Even if you think you’re making a logical decision, it is still purely based on your emotional feelings.
This is true for both men and for women. We are all driven 100% by our emotions. The relationships you get yourself into are because of your emotions.
The decisions you make, the things you say, what you think about, what you buy, what you do on a day to day basis are all driven by your emotional feelings.
You landed on my website due to an emotional feeling you have going on inside of you. Maybe you want to change yourself or your partner or the relationship. You’re looking for answers because of a feeling you have. And I think that’s good.
There is nothing wrong with accepting that you’re emotional since we’re all emotional. Therefore, to believe that some people are ‘more emotional’ than others is false.
The only difference is that some people have better control over their emotions than others. They usually have more experience, more knowledge, more understanding, etc.
Some people believe they need to control every situation. Other’s understand that most things are out of your control. This is why those that try to control and change relationships is a mistake.
The guys that try to change and control the behavior of their ‘crazy’ girlfriend always cause more problems because it’s not possible to control the emotions of other individuals.
The Actions Tell The Story
Something that I used to talk about all the time is that actions always speak louder than words.
You hear this all the time from all over the place. But now I this statement to a deeper level. And the deeper reasoning behind this statement is because of emotions.
Because we humans do everything based on our emotions, just because we say something doesn’t mean we’re going to actually do that.
What we feel right now in this moment could change abruptly within the next 10 minutes. You might be super pumped up to go white water rafting. But the moment you arrive at the river and see that it’s a class 5 turbo action flip fest, you’re most likely going to feel different.
“Actually guys, I just remembered I got this thing back home with my mom, we’re gonna grill up some steaks for dinner, might get a couple of onions and they still need to be chopped. You see, my mom can’t chop these onions because her eyes are really sensitive so I gotta do that for her, I’d love to jump on this raft with you guys but you know family comes first.”
Then you run back into your car and get the hell outta there :)
This is just how we are. Our emotions can change at a moments notice. We feel like doing something one moment, but then the next we’re doing the complete opposite.
This is why I don’t hold a lot of weight on words. I know through experience that words don’t mean anything unless there are the actions to back it up. Consistent actions.
If your girl is saying that she loves you, does she really love you? Or are these just words coming out of her mouth because right now her hormones are on fire and she’s desperate for attention?
So you see, without the consistency behind the words, they just don’t really mean anything. These words are just being said due to the current state of emotions.
Guys too often get sucked into words because they are codependent. This is why if you end up dating a crazy emotional girl, you really only have yourself to blame.
But this is okay because one of the best mindsets you’ll ever learn is that you must accept 100% responsibility for where you’re currently at in life.
It’s the hardest step to improving your relationships and your life, but it’s the most important one because it’s a battle of will. You have to be willing to let go of all blame. Only then can you push yourself forward.
A lot of actions by women can seem to be crazy. But when you begin to understand these relationship mindsets I always talk about, you being to understand how women think and you see the bigger, deeper picture which makes relationships a lot easier.
Drop The Labels
I really think it isn’t fair to be labeling people anymore. Even if your partner has BPD, it is still best that you completely drop the labeling mindset.
After all, when you accept 100% responsibility, you can’t go blaming things on your girl or the BPD or her narcissism. Of course it’s a factor, but don’t let convince yourself you’re the victim here.
Until you take this step to become responsible, you’ll never learn how to date these types of women.
So labeling people really just becomes a lose-lose situation. Nobody successful in business, life, relationships or sports got this success by blaming others. No matter how tough things got, they always accepted the responsibility and took it upon themselves to grow and self-improve.
This is why in 2015 all of my relationship articles and programs and mentoring revolve around teaching people these relationship mindsets.
According to recent divorce rate statistics, the divorce rate in America stands at about 50%. This means that marrying a ‘perfectly normal person’ (which is BS because nobody is perfect) still yields you a 50% chance of failure.
Knowing this, marriage is simply a risky endeavor no matter what. So why is it that in a world where we have more access to information than ever before are relationships failing at an alarming rate?
It’s Not That Women Are Crazy – It’s That Society Is Crazy
How is it that when we all have access to the internet with the millions and millions of tips on life, relationships, happiness, success, etc. that people are actually doing worse in their lives than ever before?
My belief is that it’s because of our mindsets. It’s common to label people, judge people, to think we deserve things, that we should be rewarded for our work, etc. There’s a lot of reasons why the common mindsets of people are so different from the champions of the past.
There are so many distractions coming at us from everywhere. While the internet has the power to change the world and do good, it also has the power to be used as a weapon of manipulation and corruption.
It’s been proven over and over again that advertisements, even if you ignore them, penetrate the subconscious mind. This is why commercials work even when you try to ignore them.
What has happened in our society is that we’ve simply been programmed with really horrible mindsets that have made us weak. We lack the information that makes us strong, healthy, enlightened and knowledgeable.
This applies to relationships because when you start dating a woman who becomes emotional, you literally have no idea what to do. You end up doing the wrong thing because what you have been taught tells you to do something that has never worked since the beginning of time.
We just live in a different world now and you have to be aware of that. The sooner you’re able to understand these relationship mindsets, the sooner you’ll begin to not be affected by all these outside forces.
The advanced lesson here is that everything around you, all these distractions are designed to manipulate the way you think.
When you lose control of your own way of thinking, you really lose control of your own happiness.
The scary part about all this is that you don’t even realize it’s happening to you.
But the fact that most people are simply unhappy and unfulfilled is just the proof that this is what is going on all the time.
And it’s ruining our relationships.
But the good news is that you are in control of your brain.
You can change your thinking and learn these relationship mindsets so you can get yourself heading in the right direction.