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The Truth About Online “Dating” and How To Succeed At It

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I can’t stand online dating. It’s can be an absolute shit show. Especially in today’s crazy world of dating and relationships.

But, I also know how addicting it can be to swipe left and right hoping to match with someone who seems to be your specific type.

As a man who played the online dating game in big cities for years, it can be like a drug that you just can’t free yourself from.

There was a period in my life where I was meeting 3-4 women (or more) every single week from Tinder and other various dating sites.

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Should You Cut Out Family Members From Your Life?

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One of the deeper questions I get from time to time is if it’s okay to cut a family member out of your life.

Here’s my answer:

If the situation warrants it, ABSOLUTELY.

But, coming to this conclusion isn’t as simple as cutting off a boyfriend because he’s just a shitty human-being.

Cutting off a sibling or a parent isn’t a decision that should be taken lightly. Only after careful consideration should you decide to take this step.

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7 Ways To Fix Relationship Drama

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It’s been a busy week for me and so I’m a little late bringing you this post. I definitely want to provide you all with more than one article per week so I hope I can free up some time in the future to do this.

With the holidays approaching, it’s no better time to talk about relationship drama. From about October to around April, I notice a large uptick in the amount of relationships people get into. Call it the relationship season if you will.

Then around April or Spring time, people tend to break up. This is personally what I’ve noticed. I seem to believe it’s due to summer traveling and other vacation plans that tend to split people apart as well as the fact that it’s getting warmer and people are doing things.

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Signs Of A Broken Relationship and Advice On What To Do

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Signs of a Broken RelationshipsTo continue our series on Toxicity, today I’m going to talk about some signs of a broken relationship, my beliefs on why there are so many of them out there and what you can do to avoid ending up in one altogether.

Divorce rates and broken relationships are at an all-time high because of the fact that most people have toxic beliefs and mentalities. Men are weaker and more passive than ever. Women are This creates a domino effect where women are lost and confused by who they should and shouldn’t date.

While there are men out there like me that understand long-term attraction and relationship success, at least 90% of men and women have no clue. This is why you can’t really blame women for dating ‘assholes’ when the rest of the men around her are weak and passive.

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