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The Legacy of Shark

Many years ago, there was a great blog on the internet written by a man who called himself "Shark." Most of you reading this have never heard of this man or his website.

But, it was easily one of the best blogs that ever existed on the internet and I was very sad when the website finally shut down round 4 years ago.

Shark focused his writings around women and relationships. His website was called "Solve My Girl Problems" for a reason. However, what he taught was much bigger than that.

It was a true treasure trove of truth. The men and women who were lucky enough to stumble across his blog would be forever changed as they continued to read what he wrote.

I managed to find an archive of every single blog post he ever wrote. I can't with good conscious let what he wrote fade away into nothingness.

Therefore, I will be posting his best articles here on my website along with additional comments and insights from myself.

Below you will find these articles. I hope you enjoy them in all their glory.

5 Mindsets That Start Oneitis and Create Dependency

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It’s not that I think “love” doesn’t exist or that being attached to your partner is necessarily a BAD thing. I just believe that there’s a fine line between “love” and “dependency.” A large portion of this blog is dedicated to helping guys getting over their ex-­girlfriends, getting them back, or trying to fix damaged relationships.

Most of these problems are more or less symptoms of Oneitis. Parasitic love not only corrodes love and attraction, but also the mental well being of unknowing martyrs. I find it especially interesting because unlike the other problems most guys have, Oneitis is NOT exclusive to betas. I’ve seen natural alphas pine after half­ass woman and actively take part in their own degradation even while they were CONSCIOUSLY aware of what they were doing.

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Girlfriend Wants A Break: What To Do?

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There are 3 reasons why your girlfriend would want a break:

(A) Her attraction level has dropped below 30%. Women do not break up with their boyfriends when their attraction level has gone below 50%, they will instead choose to torture you and withdraw sex. If you sense your girlfriend’s interest level going this low, then you need to exit your relationship or risk dying a painful death. In this scenario, you have no hope. Attraction is like a rubber band, once it snaps, it’s done. Cut your losses and move on, don’t make the same mistakes in your next relationship.

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You’re Only As Good As The Company You Keep: Watch Your Social Circle

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Beta males are like crabs in a fuckin barrel. If you ever see a social circle of beta males you’ll notice one thing consistently: as soon as any of them decide to deviate from the norm and get pussy instead of upgrading their rank in call of duty, the rest of them riot in a cacophony of incessant screaming. They relentlessly pull him back down to their blindfolded circle jerks and disapprove of any type of self development.

Take a moment and think about all the friends you know who would disapprove of you reading this article right now. They have zero game, zilch, nada, nothing.

For them, women are enigmatic creatures and self­-development means leveling up in world of warcraft or a spiritual experience with LSD.

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