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Single and Lonely? How To Deal With Loneliness and Depression

by Rick 6 Comments

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If you’re single and feeling lonely as of late, take your time to go through this article. Ending the feelings of isolation and depression is an extremely important task for a healthy life.

But, I don’t have to tell you that. You already know that to be true. A lot of depression comes from the fear of being unlovable and alone forever.

That sense of isolation can tear your brain apart and set you on a path of mental destruction. This is especially true if you’ve been single for so long and can’t deal with it.

So, I’m going to do my best to give you some practical tips to help. I’ve had periods where I was single for a couple of years at a time and managed to stay relatively happy the whole time.

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Filed Under: Improvement, Self-Esteem

How To Stop Giving A Fuck and Be A Mature, Healthy Adult

by Rick 1 Comment

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Feel like you don’t know how to stop giving a fuck? That you care way too much about the opinion of others? You’re not alone.

In fact, most people are just like you. They have no idea what it means to be a mature, healthy adult.

Instead, you care way too much about the opinions of others. You want everyone to like and appreciate you. It feels like a personal attack when people reject you.

The mental programing of your brain causes you to think and believe this way. The result is that you become dependent on others. You care way too much about the opinion of others.

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Filed Under: Mindsets, Self-Esteem

How Your Self-Esteem Can Ruin Your Relationship

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How Self-Esteem Affects Relationships

Had an email come in asking me if I had any tips on boosting self-esteem in a relationship that seems to be going down hill.

It’s a great topic because it’s a new year and ahaving a relationship that you’re excited to be in is tough if you have low self-esteem.

You forget that in your relationship, you are the major player.

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Filed Under: Improvement, Mentality, Self-Esteem

Why BPD Can Be Attractive, Sexy, Seductive and Irresistible

by Rick 44 Comments

 

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I love me some BPD women. They are usually very attractive and irresistible when they’re in a good mood.

With enough experience, you learn how to give these sexy women what they need which keeps them in a good mood most of the time.

I get my fair share of haters who say that dating a woman with BPD is impossible. But I’ve done it over and over again, and without the common irrationality that other people experience.

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Filed Under: BPD, Self-Esteem, Self-Worth

Surviving a Breakup With Your BPD Girlfriend / Boyfriend

by Rick 31 Comments

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I really don’t like using the word ‘survive’ as it sounds like we’re just trying to keep our heads above water.

I really want you to do more than just survive – I want you to thrive in BPD relationships because I’ve been doing it for years, and teaching men and women what I know.

Leaving a BPD relationship worse off than before you entered is always a clear sign that you stuck around far too long and lost a lot of self-respect and pride. Not good.

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Filed Under: BPD, Codependency, Self-Esteem

How Can I Get My Ex Back?

by Rick 40 Comments

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I’m NOT a fan of all those ‘get an ex back’ ebooks and lousy advice columns on the internet because they’re just full of junk advice written by people that don’t really have experience with this topic.

Seeing how I’ve gotten back together with multiple exes multiple times over the years, I feel that I owe you an explanation to how I’ve done it and how you can as well.

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Filed Under: Dating and Relationships, Ex Back, Self-Esteem

Little to No Sex In Your Relationship? Here’s Why.

by Rick 5 Comments

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YOU: “Mmmm c’mon baby let’s have some fun..”

HIM/HER: “Not tonight, I’m tired and not in the mood.”

YOU: “You’re never in the mood anymore…”

I know it’s a simple example, but if you’re in a relationship where the sex is far and few between, then I really hope I can help you find some answers that you seek.

A relationship with little to no sex can be the start of a toxic journey down the drain. As I often teach on my blog, understanding the core issues of why this happens will answer your questions.

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Filed Under: Dating and Relationships, Improvement, Self-Esteem

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