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Finding Success in BPD and Codependent Relationships

Strong On The Outside, Broken On The Inside

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You know that you are a strong-willed man or woman. You’ve developed that rock-solid unshakability that doesn’t allow you to take crap from anyone.

You’ve experienced a lot over the years: toxic, dysfunctional relationships, friends you’ve had to cut off, family that doesn’t respect you, bosses that treat you like crap.

There have been a lot of mistakes along the way. We all make them. Even the strongest get knocked down from time to time.

After all, what doesn’t kill you only makes you stronger.

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How To Get An Ex Back (Even If She Has A Boyfriend)

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Trying to get an ex back that has a new boyfriend? Is she ignoring you? Ghosted you? Then you’ll want to read this article.

This is a topic that hits right to the heart: trying to get that ex girlfriend back who seems to have a new boyfriend in a matter of weeks.

Or days in some cases.

Actually, I’ve seen women get a new boyfriend before she even broke up with her current one. That’s the real stinger. And, happens quite often actually.

I’ve been the victim of this. Several times in fact. It’s definitely one of the most painful experiences that can mess you up real good if don’t have your emotions under control.

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How Can I Stop a Break Up from Happening?

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If you’re in a dying relationship and trying to stop a break up from happening, then you’ll want to read this article.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

1) Be appreciative of the fact that you were able to have this relationship.
2) Understand that relationships fall apart when your partner loses attraction for you.
3) You must have goals and purpose that are beyond the scope of the relationship.
4) Relationships teach you a lot about yourself. They should make you and your partner better.

Relationships are worse than ever before. Couples are breaking up left and right, thanks to the hook-up culture that the feminists and dating apps that have taken the world by storm.

One of the most common questions I receive from readers is how to stop a break up from happening.

Wouldn’t that be amazing if you could wave a magic wand, shout some Harry Potter spell, and your relationship instantly fixes itself?

Such a dream…

The biggest sign that your relationship is headed for the dumps is when your partner is being distant, unresponsive, cold, etc.

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Can A Man Be Happily Married To A BPD Woman?

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Wanting to be happily married to a woman with a cluster B disorder such as BPD (borderline personality disorder), can be an immense undertaking, especially if you lack the understanding of woman in general.

You can read all the BPD information that you want, but it will never prepare you enough for the unique personality that your BPD woman has.

Relationships in general are a difficult undertaking in this day and age. Add BPD-related issues to the mix and it’s like throwing more gasoline into an out of control blaze.

The good news is that being married to a person with BPD doesn’t have to be as difficult and confusing as you may currently believe.
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