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Dating A Girl With BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder)

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So you’re dating a girl with BPD eh? I know every article on the internet tells you to run from borderline women, but I do things differently around these parts.

My relationship history is full of attractive BPD women. A decade of drama and chaos to put it lightly…

But, I made it out alive and have managed to remain amazing friends with many women who (most likely) have BPD. Some still refuse to admit they have aren’t perfect ;)

Anyway, BPD is a Cluster B personality disorder that is rather common these days from my experience.

According to a quick Google search, Borderline Personality Disorder is “characterized by dramatic, overly emotional or unpredictable thinking or behavior.”

I have dated dozens and dozens of women over the years. I can confidently say that you’ll find these characteristics in most women, lol.

A powerful set of relationships mindsets are the answer for dating women with BPD.

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14 Reasons Why “Nice Guys” Can’t Get Girlfriends & Dates

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If you feel like you’re genuinely a nice guy or good guy, different from all the other “assholes” out there, then please read this article.

Why is it that when you’re good to your partner, things only tend to get worse? You’re going out of your way for him/her, you’re trying to please and make them happy, you ‘different’ from his or her previous partners, etc.

Yet the relationship only gets worse and leads to failure. Why does this tend to happen so often these days?

In this big article, I’ve written about 14 reasons why the “good” men and women tend to experience more drama in their relationships than all the other people you’re ‘different’ from. Read on!

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Is My Boyfriend A Sociopath? Do They Feel Love and Emotions?

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If you’re worried that your boyfriend might be a sociopath and is incapable of love and emotions, then you need to read this article.

Many women who are dating sociopaths stumble on my blog. They often wonder why their boyfriend won’t love her the way she loves him.

You might mistakenly assume that your boyfriend has BPD or some other disorder.

But, chances are your boyfriend has a number of issues going on with his mental health. And, since I’m NOT a mental health professional, I’m simply going to write about what I believe are the warning signs of a sociopathic man.

Take what you learn from this and simply apply it to your situation. If everything I write sounds exactly like your boyfriend, then you need to consider the reality that it may be time to leave, and he needs help from a professional.

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Am I Too Intimidating To Date? Common Signs To Look For

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Have you ever asked yourself the question, “Am I too intimidating to date? Do people thing I’m hard to approach? Is my personality too strong for relationships?”

Well, the fact that you’re reading this article probably means that you’ve asked yourself these questions more than once. I know I have.

I’ve been told I have a strong personality. Women have told me over the years that I give off an intimidating vibe. I’m okay with this as I’ll explain below.

So, I’ve grabbed a bunch of common signs to think about to see if you’re actually too intimidating for a relationship.

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Are Single Women Happier Than Women In Relationships?

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The other day, I came across an article that talked about why single women are happier than women in relationships.

The author tried to make the argument than the longer a woman is single, the happier she will become.

So, I’m going to give my own take on this subject and give you the truth about women and relationships.

I will give the author some credit. She states that a lot of women end up unhappy in relationships due to having shitty boyfriends. I agree with this statement.

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How To Build A Great Relationship With Someone

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So your goal is to build a great relationship with someone, whether that’s your current girlfriend or boyfriend, or someone completely new.

Maybe you’re recently single and you want to know what you need to do going forward so you don’t end up in a toxic relationship once again.

Either way, my advice is very straight forward for this:

Only date someone who is great and makes you want to be great.

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