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No, Valentine’s Day Isn’t Just For Women

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valentines day is coming

It’s that time of year again — Valentine’s Day!

If you’ve been reading my writings for a few years, you may recall that I always go on a rant on Valentine’s Day.

However, the “problem” I’m having today is finding something to rant about.

Lately, every single email in my Free Newsletter I’ve written has been me ranting. So, I’m not sure what I can rant about when I’m always ranting in the first place.

And what isn’t there to rant about?

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Filed Under: Dating and Relationships

How To Be Less Needy and Clingy In Relationships

by Rick 6 Comments

needy and clingy in relationships

Out of all the problems I help people with in their relationships, being less needy and clingy in relationships takes the top spot.

Neediness is, by far, the biggest turnoff. If you want your partner to push you away and lose feelings for you, be as needy as possible. It will get the job done.

The problem is that most people aren’t aware of their needy behavior. You don’t realize how clingy you have been. As a result, you wake up one day ghosted without a clue.

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Filed Under: Behavior, Dating and Relationships

If You Love Her, Should You Pursue Her or Let Her Go?

by Rick 11 Comments

should you chase women?

If you’re in love with a woman and think you need to pursue her, read this article before you fall into the friendzone.

I came across an article the other day about how if a man truly loves a woman, he won’t stop pursuing her.

If you’ve read any of my writings before, you’ll know how silly of a statement that is to make. Luckily, this article is on a blog for women so it’s not really designed for men to read.

Those types of websites try to give women good feelings. The author is probably a bitter women who is trying to cope with the pain of being dumped by her ex boyfriend.

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Filed Under: Attraction, Dating and Relationships

5 Ways To Fix and Rebuild A Broken Relationship

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If you’re interested in fixing and rebuilding your broken relationship, then you’ll want to read this article.

The internet is full of people giving their opinions about how to fix a broken relationship and rebuild it to what it once was.

But isn’t that exactly what I’m doing here? Of course! The internet is an amazing place where we can all share our opinions about relationships.

Even better, if you don’t agree with someone, you simply hit the back button and find somebody else. This is especially true with relationships because we all have our own unique situations.

Perhaps you’re dating a narcissist. Or maybe you’re simply looking for happiness. Either way, the power is in YOUR hands to research what you want.

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Filed Under: Codependency, Dating and Relationships

Can Narcissist Have Healthy Relationships? Fall In Love?

by Rick 11 Comments

Narcissists In Relationships

Are you concerned that you may be dating a narcissist? Worried that your boyfriend or girlfriend is incapable of loving you? Then keep reading this article about narcissist relationships.

If you’re wondering how to get a narcissist to love you, you’re not alone. In fact, narcissism search trends have skyrocketed in recent years according to Google.

In the 8 years of running this website, I’ve never written an in-depth guide about narcissism and relationships. So, I’m excited to write about this. It’s been a long-time coming because many people who are codependent end up in relationships with narcissists.

Because the narcissist tends to lack empathy and emotional maturity, it’s difficult for them to have healthy relationships and experience unconditional, true love.

With that said, it isn’t impossible. These people aren’t sociopaths or psychopaths. They aren’t completely devoid of emotions. They may be self-absorbed most of the time, but that doesn’t mean they can’t improve and become better.

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Filed Under: Dating and Relationships, Narcissism

6 Bad Habits That Ruin and Destroy Relationships

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bad habits relationships

I love talking about bad relationship habits. When your partner pushes you away, I can guarantee that it’s due to some sort of bad habit you’re (most likely) clueless about.

Make no mistake: getting yourself into a healthy, successful relationship is the result of having good habits.

So much of everything you’ll read about when it comes to improving your life is about how to develop these good habits that other people use successfully in their lives.

Depending on your upbringing, you may have several life-crippling bad habits. These can be small things as well as big things.

And, when you get into a relationship, these habits will have a negative effect on the relationship. They will (quickly in most cases) lower your level of attractiveness in the eyes of your lover.

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Filed Under: Behavior, Dating and Relationships

7 Ways to Strengthen and Improve BPD Relationships

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strengthen relationships

I have a soft spot in my heart for borderlines because my first relationship was with a girl who has BPD. In fact, I’ve dated several borderline women over the years.

These relationships can be extremely difficult when you don’t have the knowledge and the skills needed to be with these people.

And, depending on the level of her personality disorder, it could very well be impossible to have a healthy relationship with her.

But, that shouldn’t prevent you from at least trying to make it work. Which is why I’m here with this website and why I’m passionate about helping men and women succeed in borderline relationships.

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Filed Under: BPD, Dating and Relationships

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