Shark gives us a quick lesson here in this article. Short and sweet, just like many of his posts:
I have dealt with the most severe breakups known to man kind. I have seen men left suicidal, broken, and utterly destroyed. And through it all, I have noticed that the reason for their bottomless sense of grief was not at all what they thought it was, or what they paraded around about.
Following a breakup men have told me “she was my soul mate,” “I loved her more than anything,” “We were supposed to get married,” yada yada yada. In other words, that they were upset because of a cosmic sense of love and belonging that they had lost. [Read more…]