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How Borderline Personality Disorder Affects the Rest of the Family

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how bpd affects the family

As a man who comes from a world of borderline personality disorder, having family members and several girlfriends with BPD, I think I’m a bit qualified to talk about my experiences.

And if you disagree? You can click that little back button and go read from someone else. This is my website where I share my experiences and what I learned to improve my BPD relationships over the years.

Still here? Good. I’m all about giving that real world experience, sharing stories from my real life. So be sure to check out my other articles if you like what you read.

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Filed Under: BPD, Dating and Relationships

Yes, You Should Drop Kick Your Asshole Boyfriend

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Ladies, ladies, ladies. You find yourself with an asshole of a boyfriend. And somehow, you stumbled onto my little blog in the corner of the internet.

May God help your soul.

Because I definitely cannot. But, I can give you some advice that I’ve learned over the years having been that asshole in previous relationships.

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Filed Under: Dating and Relationships

Getting Over An Ex Girlfriend? Sleep With Someone Else.

by Rick 2 Comments

Shark gives us a quick lesson here in this article. Short and sweet, just like many of his posts:

I have dealt with the most severe breakups known to man kind. I have seen men left suicidal, broken, and utterly destroyed. And through it all, I have noticed that the reason for their bottomless sense of grief was not at all what they thought it was, or what they paraded around about.

Following a breakup men have told me “she was my soul mate,” “I loved her more than anything,” “We were supposed to get married,” yada yada yada. In other words, that they were upset because of a cosmic sense of love and belonging that they had lost. [Read more…]

Filed Under: Dating and Relationships, Shark

My Girlfriend’s Best Friend Is A Guy. Should I Dump Her?

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If it bothers you, Dump Her.

Before going on to explain why such a trivial complication should be resolved in such an extreme and abrupt manner, we need to explore the idea of “cutting losses” and why it’s such an extensively circulated solution among the dating community.

Almost 90% of the time you have a problem with a girl, the immediate solution offered by any seasoned Don Juan will be “break up with her.” It’s not because we’re all unemotional cyborgs, the answer has more to do with efficiency.

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Filed Under: Dating and Relationships, Shark

Can Someone With BPD Have a Healthy, Romantic Relationship?

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Here’s a (long) story that a reader wrote in to me about his experience with a BPD relationship.

As with most people who find my website, they are looking for a way to have a romantic, fulfilling relationship with someone who suffers from Borderline Personality Disorder.

If you have read my other articles, you know that I clearly dating someone with BPD is possible. In fact, it can be quite fun as long as you have the correct attitude and belief system that I teach.

Of course that is easier said than done. So, I want you to check out this story that was sent to me and see if you can find all the mistakes that this man made in his relationship.

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The Truth About Online “Dating” and How To Succeed At It

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I can’t stand online dating. It’s can be an absolute shit show. Especially in today’s crazy world of dating and relationships.

But, I also know how addicting it can be to swipe left and right hoping to match with someone who seems to be your specific type.

As a man who played the online dating game in big cities for years, it can be like a drug that you just can’t free yourself from.

There was a period in my life where I was meeting 3-4 women (or more) every single week from Tinder and other various dating sites.

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Filed Under: Dating and Relationships, Toxicity

Can Breaking Up Get Your Ex Back? Here’s Why You Got Dumped

by Rick 4 Comments

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The biggest problem I have with 99% of the “ex back” information on the internet is the lack of truth that they feed you.

Specifically, that if you follow some sort of technique or tactic, that your ex will come crawling back to you in love again.

Because it’s such a load of shit, I thought it would be a good idea to share with you how to actually get an ex back — no stupid tactics needed.

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Filed Under: Awareness, Dating and Relationships

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