Taking the "Crazy" Out of Your Relationships
Got a good story from a member today about his girlfriend who continues to talk to her ex boyfriend. I’m glad he reached out to me because this is a common situation.
He wants to know why she’s so “difficult” and hard to understand.
Is it because of her upbringing? Because of her sexual past?
Or is she a raging Borderline that can’t be tamed? Read on and you’ll learn why this man is struggling to date this woman.
(my comments are in bold).
Let me guess: you’re dating a girl (or guy) who you know is bat shit crazy, and yet at times you start questioning your own insanity.
You start wondering if you’re just as crazy as your partner (or maybe even crazier).
Let me just say that you are not alone in these thoughts, my friend. In fact, anyone who’s been in an emotionally-driven relationship has felt this way before.
Regular readers and subscribers to my email newsletter know that they can write in to me. I like hearing their stories and relationship adventures (especially of the Borderline sort).
Here’s what he says:
One of the reasons why I spend a lot of time talking about codependent relationships is because I used to be a hardcore codependent.
Yes good ol’ Rick here was a needy, supplicating, weak man. I put women on the pedestal constantly and was afraid of rocking the boat. Not good!
As a result, all of my relationships eventually became toxic and abusive because I couldn’t be the man and lead the relationship as a man should.
Happy 4th everyone! I personally love this holiday as having the freedom to actually run a blog like this is amazing.
So with that said, I’ve got some killer tips for all the codependent, passive women out there that are trying to heal and recover.
Just as a quick plug, I’m in the process of creating a course that’s all about recovering from Codependency. It’s similar format to my BPD course is that it will have an ebook and several hours of audio training.