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An Interview With A Borderline: Woman Edition

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What follows is a quick interview I had with a borderline woman.

There is an incredible amount of gold to be gained from this interview. Many of the things I’ve been teaching for years are confirmed by her. You’ll see how her boyfriend naturally behaves in the manner that I coach.

I won’t say much more about this because I want you to read it and pick up on these things for yourself.

Enjoy!

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Filed Under: BPD, Improvement

Is Social Media Destroying Your Relationship?

by Rick 6 Comments

social media destroying relationships

One second… lemme take a selfie… *click*

Now I BETTER get 150 likes or I’m going to cry myself to sleep!

Sound familiar?

Anyone who’s dated a social media obsessed guy or girl over the years can relate to how big of a factor Instagram and Snapchat and Twitter are to the relationship.

What makes this an interesting phenomenom is that this wasn’t the case just 5 years ago.

It’s only been the last several years that social media has had such a major impact on the dating game.

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Filed Under: BPD, Mentality

DBT Therapy Will Make You Bitter & Resentful

by Rick 2 Comments

dbt therapy relationships resentful

One of the more common forms of “treatment” for BPD is in the popular DBT therapy (developed by a liberal feminist in Seattle, of course).

Why do I get political about it right from the beginning?

I don’t know. I like to be political, but I also understand that it’s not really a good idea to be getting political when the reader such as yourself is seeking help.

However, I find it important to understand this fact with the approach of DBT therapy, especially when it comes to relationships with a Borderline.

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Filed Under: Attraction, BPD

How A Borderline Saved My Life

by Rick 7 Comments

BPD Can Save Lives

I’m here in my “office” recalling my past when I dated some serious Borderline’s who really took a number on me.

If you’ve been reading my stuff here for awhile now, then you know I’m not some “guru” or some self-proclaimed relationship “expert.”

I’m simply a guy who has a lot of experiences with dating girls with BPD. I originally created this blog in 2010 to write about my experiences and vent, lol.

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Filed Under: Attraction, BPD

How To Stop Obsessing Over Your Ex Girlfriend

by Rick 2 Comments

obsessing over my ex girlfriend

I got a great email from a reader who has been obsessing with his ex girlfriend.

He has worked hard to get over her, and finally came to the conclusion that he is suffering from Emotional Addiction.

In other words, he’s addiction to the highs & lows of his ex girlfriend. She has absolute power over him and dictates his feelings 24/7.

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Filed Under: BPD, Dating and Relationships, Emotions

When Your Ex Comes Back. Then Leaves Again.

by Rick 4 Comments

ex left came back

Here’s a somewhat common relationship situation involving your ex:

Take a minute to imagine that you’re currently broken up (if you are currently broken up, then there’s no reason to imagine).

At 2 in the morning, your ex calls you up and says that he or she misses you and wants to hear your voice.

This is certainly fine and dandy for ya, right? It’s what you’ve been waiting for all this time.

To make things even better, your ex says that she is willing to meet up at your house.

Wowzers!

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Filed Under: BPD, Ex Back

Can Borderlines/BPD Fall In Love In Relationships?

by Rick 14 Comments

can BPDs love?

Here we go again. The common BPD myth.

This belief that Borderline’s are incapable of love and that the best solution is to run far away.

You hear this all the time. And, quite frankly, it’s getting really old at this point.

But I’m always up for the challenge (and I’ve never been bothered by people telling me this in hate mail).

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Filed Under: BPD, Dating and Relationships, Improvement

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