In comes a question from a nice woman who is wondering if she can get her BPD boyfriend back after he abruptly broke up with her. It seemed to be the typical “out of the blue” break up that you always hear about.
These are some of the worst experiences to go through, and I’ve been through several myself when it comes to dating women. Whether they had BPD or not doesn’t really matter: getting ghosted or ditched out of the blue hurts. And, if you’re not prepared for it, it can stop you in your tracks for several months.