Why “Nice” Guys Finish Last And Can’t Fall In Love

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Do you feel like you’re a “nice guy” (or girl) and yet you just can’t get a girlfriend? Or any intimacy to begin with?

Deep down, you know that you’re this good guy who only wants to make a woman happy. But no matter what you do, the women don’t seem to notice this.

What’s the deal? Why is it that “nice guys” (and some women) tend to never get the love they desperately want in return?

If you read my last blog post about why being “nice” and “good” can create problems, then you are ready to dive into more specific reasons of WHY “nice” people tend to finish last.

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14 Reasons Why Being “Good” Hurts Relationships & Dating

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If you feel like you’re genuinely a “good” and “nice” person, different from all the other “assholes” out there, then please read this article. Why is it that when you’re good to your partner, things only tend to get worse? You’re going out of your way for him/her, you’re trying to please and make them […]

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Why Is My Girlfriend Pushing Me Away, Being Distant, Cold?

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If you’re currently dating a girl that keeps pushing you away, then I hope that I can give you some pointers to help you get your relationship back on track and in the direction that you wish it to be with this post.

One of the common situations that arise in these types of relationships is the push/pull. Both guys and girls tend to do it at times in relationships and it always leaves the other person wondering what the heck went wrong.

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5 Signs Your BPD or Bipolar Relationship Will Fail

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Dating a person with some sort of behavioral disorder (such as BPD) or a mental illness (such as Bipolar Disorder) can be one of the most difficult relationships known to man and I’ll tell you why – the way they think, their emotional level, their experiences growing up are completely different than what most ‘normal’ people go through.

There’s a reason why people with personality disorders tend to divorce 90% of the time and they always tend to be a bit promiscuous. And people that are Bipolar tend to have just as much trouble keeping relationships.

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Dating A Girl With BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder)

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I have dated multiple women that most people would label as a Borderline. I want to share how I’ve managed to do this successfully without any of the typical problems you hear about in BPD relationships.

If you happen to be in a relationship with a woman that has BPD and you’re here reading this article, I’m going to guess that your relationship isn’t going as well as you would expect it to be.

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Borderline Ex Stopped Communicating. What Should You Do?


As someone who has dated multiple women with BPD, and have learned much about the disorder, I really want to talk to you about what to do when your borderline ex stops communicating with you. It’s a common question I receive from both men and women who are in relationships with people who have BPD. Now you […]

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7 Tips for a Codependent Woman to Heal & Recover

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Happy 4th everyone! I personally love this holiday as having the freedom to actually run a blog like this is amazing. So with that said, I’ve got some killer tips for all the codependent, passive women out there that are trying to heal and recover. Just as a quick plug, I’m in the process of creating […]

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5 Values, Mindsets and Beliefs That Cause Relationship Drama

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Relationships aren’t meant to be easy. You need strong mindsets, good values, patience and an open-mind (among many things). Leaving some of these important factors out is the reason why most relationships fail. Especially in this day and age. Did you know that around 95% of all relationships are toxic and unhealthy?

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How Can A BPD Woman Fix Her Relationship?

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While it might seem that I’m just here to help “normal/non-bpd” people succeed in BPD relationships… The reality is that both men and women with BPD seek out my help all the time. I believe it’s due to the fact that I’m one of the only sources on the web that doesn’t cast a negative light on […]

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