Finding Success in BPD and Codependent Relationships
So I was browsing Reddit (puke) a few weeks ago and came across this thread that I thought was really insightful.
It’s obvious if you’ve been reading my work for awhile, but still insightful and a good reminder of the truth nonetheless.
Here is what the person had to get off his chest:
This is one of the most important articles I’ve ever written, and it very much fits our current society. Nearly every single woman I talk to these days tells me that she has some form of anxiety. Not surprisingly, these are women in their early to mid 20’s.
We are beginning to see the effects of what broken marriages and families without father’s does to both women and men in society. Specifically, what happens to a woman when she grows up in a family without a dad, with an abusive dad, or simply a dad who has no masculine energy to show her.
I had a really great comment on my last article from a guy who said that my content is geared towards men dating really attractive women (click here to read the article).
It’s true.
The advice that I write is tailored from my life experiences, even to this day where I ONLY date women who I perceive as being very attractive. The best of the best. These are the types of women that I go for these days because I truly want the best. Plus, there’s nothing better than hooking up with a woman who’s got a bangin’ body and smells better than any woman you’ve ever smelt before.
So you’ve recently met a woman who you have a strong connection with. She’s hot for you and you have great dates, conversations and sex. But suddenly, she’s cold as ice leaving you confused. This begs the question: why are women so hot and cold?
If this is a common occurrence for you when it comes to dating women, you’re not alone. In fact, if you’re a man who dates attractive women, you will constantly experience the hot/cold treatment from women. It’s going to be normal and you should expect it.
This is the state of women in our current society thanks to social media and dating apps giving them attention from men 24/7. You shouldn’t expect anything less these days.
As a man who comes from a world of borderline personality disorder, having family members and several girlfriends with BPD, I think I’m a bit qualified to talk about my experiences.
And if you disagree? You can click that little back button and go read from someone else. This is my website where I share my experiences and what I learned to improve my BPD relationships over the years.
Still here? Good. I’m all about giving that real world experience, sharing stories from my real life. So be sure to check out my other articles if you like what you read.
Ladies, ladies, ladies. You find yourself with an asshole of a boyfriend. And somehow, you stumbled onto my little blog in the corner of the internet.
May God help your soul.
Because I definitely cannot. But, I can give you some advice that I’ve learned over the years having been that asshole in previous relationships.
In comes a question from a nice woman who is wondering if she can get her BPD boyfriend back after he abruptly broke up with her. It seemed to be the typical “out of the blue” break up that you always hear about.
These are some of the worst experiences to go through, and I’ve been through several myself when it comes to dating women. Whether they had BPD or not doesn’t really matter: getting ghosted or ditched out of the blue hurts. And, if you’re not prepared for it, it can stop you in your tracks for several months.