This is one of the most important articles on BPD you’ll ever read. It is all about how you must establish Respect.
Look, I’ve been all over the internet browsing forums and reading different websites and blogs that talk about BPD and in 99% of all the cases that I read, the NON is confused as to why the BPD is leaving when he’s done everything for her.
It simply doesn’t make sense! Why would a woman leave when you’ve been genuinely great to her?
The first answer is obvious – people with BPD do not think the same way you do.
The second is not so obvious – women in general don’t like men that are accommodating. They’ll deal with it for awhile, but eventually it does get old because they feel that all you do is suck up to them. This is why your girl pushes you away.
Now for a Borderline, being accommodating drives them away 10 times faster than a normal woman. Maybe even 100 times.
One big piece of advice I give to guys when they’re thinking about leaving a BPD is to simply be as nice as possible. Send her texts about how much you love her over and over again every single day. Offer to do everything for her and when she treats you badly, start begging and begging and fake cry.
That is how you get rid of a Borderline for good…
Now on the other hand, keeping a BPD in your life requires just one thing more than the others: RESPECT!
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