crush fear build confidence

One of the most important skills to develop in life is learning how to crush your fears and master confidence making you capable of accomplishing anything on your mind.

Succeeding in relationships is entirely dependent on the way you handle yourself and a lot of this has to do with your confidence levels.

When dating someone with BPD, your confidence levels will be tested over and over again even if you’re doing really well in the relationship.

BPD’s are very good at these tests and if you’re not ready for them, you’ll begin to fear more and more and your confidence will drop.

Today’s article is all about crushing your fears and mastering confidence so no matter who you date, you’ll always be prepared for these tests and anything else thrown your way.

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successful relationships cats

You already know that relationships can be up or down, but the question is this: are your relationships consistently up or consistently down?

If you find yourself going through drama, emotional pain, confusion and more on a regular basis, then your relationship needs a complete overhaul. It’s time to go back to the drawing board and learn some new things that can make it successful.

If this sounds excellent to you, I’ve created a list of 7 things that successful relationships have in common. Read through these, think them over and think about how you can apply these to your relationships.

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strengthen relationships

I have a soft spot in my heart for BPD’s because I’ve dated several over the past few years. These relationships can be extremely difficult for you when you don’t have the knowledge and the skills needed to be with these people.

After having the first few of these relationships crash and burn, I spent a lot of time educating myself and learning skills that would make these relationships work. I’ve only continued to further develop these skills over the years.

Today I will be continuing the theme of creating a list article with the last being about how to be a great parent. Today brings back more information about BPD relationships that should give you hope should you follow all of these tips and put them into effect in your relationship.

Let’s begin:

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be a great parent

Whether you’re dating someone that’s toxic or not, this doesn’t change the fact that you still have the ability to be the best parent you can be – even if you aren’t able to see your children often.

As a parent, you have the power to enforce positive beliefs or negative beliefs onto your children. Upbringing defines who we become as we grow older. Most people stick with what they were taught growing up, hardly ever breaking away from the bubble they were raised in.

And then you have yourself, me and others that actively seek out new knowledge from websites such as this one because we do want to change ourselves and become better.

So with that, I give you this article of what I believe it takes to be a great parent. These are the exact 7 beliefs that I’ve taught myself learning from various experts and I share them with you hoping that you’ll gain some new knowledge that you can pass to your kids so that they can grown strong, healthy, independent and succeed in all walks of life.

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relationship blunders

As I’ve always said, let the past be the past. You cannot travel back in time and prevent yourself from making mistakes. The good news is that our past presents itself as an opportunity to change the future. And the future is what counts.

Your actions of today will define who you are tomorrow. If you continue to move ahead in life without the necessary knowledge needed to succeed in love and relationships, how do you expect to find the happiness and success you deserve?

You simply won’t as long as you continue to do these same blunders over and over again.

In this article, I’ve listed 7 of the biggest relationship blunders that people like you and me do consistently that bring us down. I have spent a considerable amount of time overcoming these errors so that I may see the success that I’ve been fortunate enough to see.

Read through every single on of these and work on fixing these errors if you find yourself doing them.

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bad habits relationships

I recently wrote an article that was all about habits that increase relationship happiness. Today’s article is going the other way, it’s about bad habits that drain relationship happiness.

A positive, successful life is all about developing good habits. With good habits comes positive, happy relationships. So much of everything you’ll read about when it comes to improving your life is about how to develop these good habits that other people use successfully in their lives.

Depending on your upbringing, you may have several life-crippling bad habits. These can be small things as well as big things. And when you get into a relationship, these habits can have a negative effect on the relationship and can lower your attractiveness in your lover’s eyes.

Being in a relationship basically means you and your partner are committing to each other. Over time, you start to notice the habits of one another. If these are bad habits, they begin to add up. Think of it as a scoring system. The more bad habits you have, the more negative points going against you. And not all habits are created equal. Sometimes all it takes is one mistake to ruin a relationship (such as breaking trust).

Let’s discuss what I believe to be the 6 worst habits that ruin relationships:

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relationship warning signs

One of the most healthiest skills in life and loving relationships is learning how to surround yourself with people that make you a better person. Unfortunately, most people tend to keep or latch on to friends and lovers that really do nothing to improve the quality of your life.

Do you have people in your life that are toxic, negative, trolls and constantly negative?

I used to have a lot of friends like this growing up. I still know people in their 30′s that are constantly bashing others, have nothing fun and positive to talk about, they whine and complain, they can be very critical. I limit my exposure to these people as much as possible just as you should.

In this article, you will learn what I believe to be the top 5 warning signs that you’re in a bad relationship. As you read these, what improvements could you make on your end? Which skills are you lacking?

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