How To Improve Your BPD Relationship

improve bpd relationship

The next article in the BPD series is about how you can improve your BPD relationship, no matter how toxic it may have become.

I’ve been personal coaching both people with BPD and non’s for years now. At the end of the day, improving your relationship always starts with you. You cannot expect your partner to just change.

However, as you change yourself and improve your self-esteem, your partner might be influenced to change as well. But this isn’t something you should focus on because it’s out of your control.

[Read more…]

Borderline Personality Disorder: Causes and Treatments

bpd causes and treatments

Welcome to part 3 in my new BPD blog series. In this article, I’m going to discuss the causes and what I believe are the best ways to treat the illness that is Borderline Personality Disorder.

I personally believe that all forms of mental illness can be healed with commitment and discipline. I don’t believe BPD to be as serious as others do since I’ve dated multiple women with it just fine.

But most people have their own Codependency issues and thus struggle with these relationships. Much of my success in these relationships is learning how to not be Codependent.

[Read more…]

What Are The Symptoms of BPD?

symptoms of bpd

This next article in my new BPD series is about the most common symptoms you’ll find if you’re trying to determine if someone close to you has Borderline Personality Disorder.

In the first article about how BPD relationships evolve, I make a good argument why you don’t really want to be spending too much time focused on these BPD answers.

But I still completely understand that you want answers, and it’s good you’re educating yourself. Just make sure you don’t let your search for answers turn into an obsession as it does for many.

[Read more…]

How A BPD Love Relationship Should Evolve

bpd love relationship evolve

As I get more involved with helping both men and women with BPD, I’m going to be writing more and more articles such as this one to help readers such as yourself.

It’s 2015 and my goal is to help people regardless. I don’t like labeling people with BPD, or any other label for that matter, but I realize that I’d be a fool to completely ignore it as well.

The reality is that people with Borderline Personality Disorder are still unique, creative individuals just like you and me and due to my success in all sorts of relationships, I want to go to battle against my critics and the one-sided “experts” and teach how to succeed.

[Read more…]

Is Marriage Really As Hard As They Say?

is marriage hard

I came across an article today that’s been making it’s way around Facebook and other social media sites. It’s about marriage and why it supposedly doesn’t work today.

While I have my own opinions about marriage, which I’ll discuss in this article, the author of this USA Today article has typical, poor mindsets that most common men have today.

For this reason, it’s no wonder that his marriage failed in this day and age. We simply live in a new age and most men struggle with adapting.

[Read more…]

Why Won’t My Ex Call Me Back?

will ex call me back

Happy Easter everyone! I hope you were able to fill your tummies with loads of chocolate and jelly belly’s like I did. And cheesecake. I probably gained 4 pounds…

Anyway, it’s time to re-write an old article from 2011. That’s right! I’ve been blogging for 4 years now and I’ve been going through my old articles and bringing them up to 2015 standards!

So today’s re-write is from an article I wrote during my ‘ex back’ lessons. This one specifically is about what to do when you’ve broken up with a man or woman and they just won’t return your calls/texts.

[Read more…]

7 Signs You’re Dating A Quality Man

dating a quality man

I’ve been hard at work on the new BPD Relationship Success program which is why I haven’t been blogging as much lately.

I’m really proud of the new direction I’ve taken with the program as it’s designed for anyone in need of relationship and lifestyle improvement.

I still have to record audio for all 18 sections so it may be another week before I fully complete the program, but all of the written sections are online. Feel free to sign up and get an early start if you wish.

[Read more…]

Get An Ex Back Even If She Has A Boyfriend?

ex back boyfriend

Post Update: This one is from way back in 2011! Can you believe I’ve been blogging for that long? Pretty wild. I’ve completely rewritten everything. Enjoy!

One of the more common questions I receive from readers is if I can help them get their girlfriend back. And the kicker is that they already have a new boyfriend!

These types of questions I often find myself shaking my head because it’s just one of those situations where the mindsets are soooo off. So I go to work helping with this as much as I can.

And of course, I’ve hooked up with my ex girlfriend’s before and so have many other men. But how do we do this? And why are our mindsets making things worse?

[Read more…]