Get An Ex Back Even If She Has A Boyfriend?

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Post Update: This one is from way back in 2011! Can you believe I’ve been blogging for that long? Pretty wild. I’ve completely rewritten everything. Enjoy!

One of the more common questions I receive from readers is if I can help them get their girlfriend back. And the kicker is that they already have a new boyfriend!

These types of questions I often find myself shaking my head because it’s just one of those situations where the mindsets are soooo off. So I go to work helping with this as much as I can.

And of course, I’ve hooked up with my ex girlfriend’s before and so have many other men. But how do we do this? And why are our mindsets making things worse?

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How To Date A ‘Crazy’ Girl Without Losing Your Sanity

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First things first: I think everybody can be crazy as all hell at times. I know I’ve had my crazy moments and I’m sure you have as well.

So I just want all my female readers to know that I’m not singling you out here. We’re all a little crazy and I hope after reading through this article, you’ll like my position in all of this.

To me, I don’t really find anything too crazy anymore. I have enough experience that if I’m to call someone crazy, they have to do something insanely out of the ordinary…

So I think the real question you must ask yourself is if this person is actually crazy, or if you’re just experiencing something that’s unusual to you? Because what may seem crazy to you may make perfect sense to others…

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Can You Get Back With Your Ex By Being Nice?

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Do nice behaviors work to get back your ex?

Today’s article comes from a man that asked me a very similar question. He basically wanted to know what nice things he could do that would woo his ex and make her interested again.

He wanted to know what he could do so she could view him as a ‘good’ guy and thus want to reignite the relationship once again.

But is this man thinking the right mindsets? Can you get an ex back by being this nice, good guy? Let’s find out.

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Can BPD Relationships Work Long-Term?

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Are you wondering if it’s actually possible to have a healthy, long-term BPD relationship? One with less drama, less hot/cold behavior, less trust issues?

Maybe you’re dating someone with unusual behavior and it has led you to learning about BPD, which eventually led you here to my website. And I got good news for you.

After many of my own personal relationships, as well as coaching both men and women over the years, it is absolutely possible to date someone with BPD for the long-term.

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Why Giving Space In A Relationship Is Healthy

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I want to tell a quick story about a relationship I had when I was younger. It was one of those types of relationships where you look back and wonder ‘what was I thinking?’.

I don’t see myself as any better than you or anybody else for that matter. It’s why I don’t label or judge people and is a big part of my coaching methods.

I used to think differently when I was younger: I had a big ego, I was always trying to be better than everybody else, life was about success or failure. Because of this poor mindset, I always dated women that were equally as toxic as I was.

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Dating and Relationships Are About Commitment; NOT Interest

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Got my coffee in hand and I’m excited to be writing this post for you today. I’ve been getting some questions about interest lately and I want to share my opinion on the subject.

Today’s post is going to focus on COMMITMENT and why it’s the most important factor when it comes to dating and relationships. A lot of people focus on interest levels which in my opinion is a mistake.

I’m sure you see or know certain people in your life that just seem to ‘get it’. They have healthy relationships, they never have a problem dating good people, they have the dating life you wish you could have.


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5 Ways to Repair a Broken Heart

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The theme for the past week or so has been about how to get an ex back. It’s an interesting, yet widely popular topic, because most people that think this way are of the wrong mindsets.

(By the way, I finally got on Twitter so follow me if you want more gold from me at random times throughout the day).

So today, I’m going to discuss what you can to do during this time of separation to repair your heart and begin to feel alive again.

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How Can I Stop a Break Up from Happening?

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I received a question from a member who asked me what he can do to stop a break up from happening. He told me that in the past he never could figure out what to do when he feels his partner is being distant.

Breaking up sucks and it’s definitely one of the worst feelings in the world when you’re on the receiving end of it. So what can you do to prevent this from evening happening?

For this question, it’s important to look at the bigger reasons of why your partner might be wanting to end things with you. This major event will only cause more and more pain for you if you don’t know these answers.

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