BPD long term relationship

I used to be like you, wondering if it were ever possible to actually have a successful BPD relationship. Less drama, less hot/cold behavior, less trust issues. The usual. You’re probably wondering the same thing.

Maybe you’re dating someone with unusual behavior and it led you to learning about BPD, which eventually led you here to my website. You hear over and over again from people on the internet to avoid Borderlines, that they’re incapable of being in a long-term, healthy relationship.

Well, after many of my own personal experiences as well as coaching both men and women over the years, it is absolutely possible to make these relationships fun and enjoyable for the long-term.

They’re just a bit different from what you’re used to. Truly successful, long-term relationships are only possible when you actually know how relationships work. Almost everybody gets this wrong.

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codependency relationships

The more time that you spend learning about BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder) and other behavioral relationships, the more you will realize that most people in these relationships suffer from some sort of Codependency issues.

BPD’s are usually also very codependent individuals. They seek the same love and affection that codependents seek. But BPD related issues get in the way.

Over the years, I have gotten much better at figuring out the causes of codependency and more importantly, how to smash these problems so you can live a happier and healthier life.

I began my research into codependency several years ago just as you are doing now because I felt the same things that you’re feeling now. Sure enough, I realized that I had a lot of codependency issues and thus I worked on fixing them.

Most of you probably suffer from some sort of codependency. The reason BPD’s and codependents attract each other is because a lot of the same issues overlap each other.

So let’s dive in and explore more about Codependency and what you can do starting now to fix these issues…

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Out of all the questions I receive from my readers, asking about how to get a BPD ex back is definitely the most common question.

And I really do try to offer as much help as possible on this subject. Getting an ex back in general is a hard task as I’m sure you understand.

But the #1 key to getting a BPD ex back is to NOT chase as this can back fire and push your ex away even more.

It’s really hard to lose focus on your ex when you have strong feelings for her, but you must work as hard as you can to focus on your own lifestyle improvement or else you’ll deteriorate.

It doesn’t matter how good of a boyfriend or girlfriend you think you were. The biggest factor in BPD relationship success is educating yourself.

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bpd bipolar relationship mistakes

If there’s anyone that understands what it’s like to date someone with BPD (borderline personality disorder) or Bipolar disorder, its me. My first girlfriend had both BPD and Bipolar.

As you can guess, my first introduction into relationships was quite a wild one. But I learned a lot from it and for that I am thankful.

Dating someone with any type of behavioral issue can be a daunting task if you are not prepared. If you’re simply looking for a calm, relaxing experience, then it’s best you avoid these types of people.

However, if you find the fun and excitement far outweighs the drama that can come about, then I’m glad you found my website because my passion is helping both men and women succeed in dating people with behavioral issues such as BPD and Bipolar.

Because these people have usually had a rough and tumultuous upbringing, they tend to think differently, their emotions are constantly up and down, they have trouble with trust and commitment, and plenty of other various issues.

Here are what I believe to be the 5 biggest mistakes people make when dating a BPD or Bipolar person:

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dating a bpd male

Dating a male with BPD is a very interesting topic for me because of my beliefs towards BPD in general. It is such a vast diagnosis that it’s really difficult to simply say ‘Oh, he has BPD’.

In the process of creating this article, I decided around 3am that I should just record an additional audio program specifically for the women that are looking for BPD male advice.

So, I recorded a brand new audio program called The BPD Male. If you have already purchased the BPD Relationship Success program, then you’ll find the new audios on the download page.

With that said, the main point that I want you to instill into your head as you read this article and anything else in the future is that:

You must focus on the individual that you are involved with, and NOT the diagnosis (such as BPD).

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girlfriend being distant

I have experienced cold and distant women numerous times in my life, and I’m sure you have experienced this as well, especially if you’re dating a girl that happens to have BPD.

And even if you believe that you’re doing everything right in your relationship, it can still happen to you.


Because sometimes it just doesn’t matter how much you know about women. There could be numerous reasons why she’s pushing you away and being distant, and sometimes she just wants some time to herself and to think. Or maybe she’s testing you.

Either way, it’s important that you don’t make the same, common errors that most men make so you can prevent her going distant as much as possible. Let’s dive in.

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Controlling Your Emotions

What’s the number one quality a man or woman like yourself can have? It’s the ability to control yourself under times of pressure and distress.

Why? Because most people are so awful at controlling their emotions that it becomes rare and highly desired to be around someone who can control their emotions.

Luckily for you, I’ve been to hell and back in multiple relationships and I spend a considerable amount of time to this day working on being more present and centered so that I can keep my emotions under control when the going gets tough.

Here are what I believe to be 5 most important ways to control your emotions, making you an amazing individual:

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